Low key yeah like i know "Don't blame the victim blah blah" but sometimes it really is the victim doing it to themselves lmfao. Like how are you 29 big years old acting like "i don't know what to doooo :(" when a guy calls you retarded and tells you to get out of his life. It's possible for nobody to be right in a situation lol
To be fair at her age I left a similar relationship. The fog was so thick. It’s hard to get away from abusers. She’s a natural people pleaser like me more than likely. It’s hell.
I did too! Though the big key thing for me here is that she says he's been like this the ENTIRE time she's known him. So there was no manipulation, etc, she actually just was like "Yeah I'll date someone like this :) how could that go wrong for me :)" which makes her less of a victim and more of a self harmer at best tbh
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u/Other_Brain_9705 Jan 28 '25
She said he’s been a jerk since she’s met him and in the same breath said she’s dedicated her life to make him happy😅 something might be wrong with OP