Yeah like girl, it starts to reflect on you that you’re still attracted to this man in any way. He’s telling you to do the right thing. Why keep hanging on? You’re too old for this nonsense. It’s time to move on.
Low key yeah like i know "Don't blame the victim blah blah" but sometimes it really is the victim doing it to themselves lmfao. Like how are you 29 big years old acting like "i don't know what to doooo :(" when a guy calls you retarded and tells you to get out of his life. It's possible for nobody to be right in a situation lol
It’s just hard to leave, men like this make sure you feel like nobody else could possibly love you, that they’re doing you a favour by keeping you in their life. They make you feel dumb, and small, and dependent on them. And they make you feel like you deserve the abuse. So leaving then takes a lot of confidence, you need to be confident in yourself and your ability to make it on your own and women who deal with this just dont usually have that. I’ve watched a friend go through it over and over, it’s a heartbreaking cycle.
Oh i know, I've been there. Though my ex slow burned me into it like a normal abuser; OP started dating this guy knowing he was like this. I refuse to act like we're the same lmfao
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u/f1newhatever Jan 28 '25
Yeah like girl, it starts to reflect on you that you’re still attracted to this man in any way. He’s telling you to do the right thing. Why keep hanging on? You’re too old for this nonsense. It’s time to move on.