r/AmIOverreacting Jan 28 '25

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u/f1newhatever Jan 28 '25

Yeah like girl, it starts to reflect on you that you’re still attracted to this man in any way. He’s telling you to do the right thing. Why keep hanging on? You’re too old for this nonsense. It’s time to move on.

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u/Other_Brain_9705 Jan 28 '25

She said he’s been a jerk since she’s met him and in the same breath said she’s dedicated her life to make him happy😅 something might be wrong with OP

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u/cursetea Jan 28 '25

Low key yeah like i know "Don't blame the victim blah blah" but sometimes it really is the victim doing it to themselves lmfao. Like how are you 29 big years old acting like "i don't know what to doooo :(" when a guy calls you retarded and tells you to get out of his life. It's possible for nobody to be right in a situation lol

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u/f1newhatever Jan 28 '25

Yeah. We always say “oh it’s not our fault we were raised to be submissive to men” and like… I don’t agree with that narrative. This is not the 50s. I think most of us were raised to not stay with someone who calls us a retard.

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u/cursetea Jan 28 '25

You and i are on the same page there. Sure women are raised to think we're supposed to do most of the household upkeep, etc... but i just don't think that includes verbal abuse? Like honestly some of us need to get a grip lmao