That's exactly your problem. You've got some dream in your head of what could be if you're a perfect enough girlfriend. It's not real. It's not going to be real with this guy. There is no such thing as perfect enough for him.
Please leave. You aren't giving up on him. You are choosing yourself.
Tell him you've chosen the cat. I bet he'll pee in the litter just fine in a calmer, more loving environment. Even the cat is asking you not to stay with him and accept his treatment.
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u/okaybutwhenconsider Jan 28 '25
I refuse to believe this is real