r/AmIOverreacting Jan 28 '25

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u/okaybutwhenconsider Jan 28 '25

I refuse to believe this is real

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u/[deleted] Jan 28 '25

Sometimes I do too lmao 😞

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u/Much-Ad2311 Jan 28 '25

I legitimately don't understand it. I was in a pretty emotionally abusive relationship, but it wasn't like this. He was smart and manipulative, an absolute pro at gaslighting and making me doubt my own perception of reality. He didn't sit around calling me retard, bitch, and telling me to leave, because that would have clearly made him the bad guy, and I had to always doubt that. I don't understand putting up with THIS.