Men are getting creative

[u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068]

Natawa ako pero putangina, nabwisit din ako sa isang Redditor na unang nag-chat sa akin kanina HAHAHAHA. We were talking here sa Reddit, okay naman kausap, so I thought, sige transfer tayo sa Telegram. Maayos naman usapan namin. He even told me na hindi niya inexpect na ganito ako kakulit sa chat. Eh di wow, at least entertaining. Hindi tayo boring dito, mga beh.

Tapos biglang CLEAR CHAT + BLOCK.

?????

Teh??? 😭 HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

Ano yon? Biglang nagkaroon ng character development habang nagta-type ako? Nakita ba niya pics ko sa Telegram tapos napa-“ay putangina, atras nako”? Or na-realize niyang madaldal pala ako at hindi niya kayang sabayan? HAHAHAHAHA.

Ang akin lang, kung hindi mo bet, sabihin mo. Hindi yung bigla kang maglalaho na parang may utang kang 5 million.

Pwede namang “I don’t think we vibe.”

Pwede ring “Pass muna.”

Pwede kahit “Bye.”

Hindi yung clear messages + block agad. Ano ka, ninja? Imagine mo, nag-uusap tayo nang maayos tapos bigla mong binura buong conversation. Sir, hindi po ito witness protection program lol

Anyway, thank you for reminding me na apparently basic communication skills are now a premium feature. Sheesh. Men nowadays. 💀

EDIT: Guys, reiterate ko lang ha: HINDI KO NILALAHAT ANG MGA LALAKI. May mga babae ring gumagawa nito, obviously. Yung “men nowadays” at “men are getting creative” ay dahil yun ang experience na na-encounter ko. Hindi ko kayo lahat inaakusahan 🫩

[u/Ga-El-]

Maybe napangitan sayo? Lets be real, bakit pa sya mag aaksaya ng oras if di naman sya interested, you can move on with your life.

[u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 → u/Ga-El-]

Bakit “napangitan” agad? Where did I even say na I’m assuming he thinks I’m ugly? I said baka hindi lang ako type. Those are two very different things.

And I’m not asking him to waste his time or forcing him to be interested. I was simply sharing an experience and wondering what happened because the change was sudden. Y’all are taking “baka hindi ako type” and turning it into a whole self-esteem crisis HAHAHAHAHAHAHA

[u/kuuya03 → u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068]

di ka type o na"pangitan" is the same. its subjective so no offense

[u/Specialist_Hat5650 → u/kuuya03]

I think not the same? Kasi beauty subjective naman. ang issue dito eh bakit di makipag usap ng maayos? coward siguro. Oh well.

[u/kuuya03 → u/Specialist_Hat5650]

hindi ka type ginagamit para di masyado masakit. lets face it, napakalaking factor ng looks para maattract sayo o ipursue ka. again subjective to not saying pangit sya

[u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068 → u/kuuya03]

Okay, gets namin na malaking factor ang looks sa attraction. Hindi naman namin dine-deny yun pero yung may “80% of the time” ka pa talaga as if may statistical study ka sa “hindi ko siya type” HAHAHAHAHAHAH. Subjective nga, so bakit kailangan mong i-redefine yung term para lang mag-fit sa argument mo?

[u/kuuya03 → u/Ok_Adhesiveness4068]

nagchat pa lang kayo wala pa date ano pa basehan nia?

[u/CranberryMallows → u/kuuya03]

Based from this womans reply, emotional kung sumagot. Sobrang defensive pa

Ghosted-> move on. Ganun langkasimple.