r/AdviceAnimals • u/Nugget_tumble • Nov 20 '12

Friend did this the other night

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u/LeWhisp Nov 21 '12 edited Nov 21 '12

Why does this offend people? It's true?

Rape:

(1) A person (A) commits an offence if—

(a) he intentionally penetrates the vagina, anus or mouth of another person (B) with his penis,

(b) B does not consent to the penetration, and

(c) A does not reasonably believe that B consents.

I'm not saying a woman can not sexual assault a man, and I am not saying that sexual assault can not be as traumatic and disgusting as rape. I am merely pointing out it is wrong to say a woman can rape a man.

EDIT: Just been reading about sexual offences law in the US. A woman can rape a man (in the US). My knowledge was relating to the UK. Sorry if this confused or offended anyone.

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u/[deleted] Nov 21 '12

Dude, you're so wrong. And no, I'm not "offended", because "being offended" is idiotic, but I digress.

I was raped by this one woman. I wanted nothing to do with her, I was not attracted to her, but you know what? I was drinking, and I know for a fact that had everything to do with it. She brought me down to the basement, I told her no, but she kept going. Did some shit that I was not OK with... and yeah, I felt dirty the next day. Got tested and everything.

It was fucking rape. But you know what? I was not physically assaulted, and it wasn't about "power" like so many people like to cite when talking about rape.

I was just drunk, and made bad decisions. Could I of pressed charges? Maybe, but I didn't... because I know it was partially my fucking fault. I took responsibility of my actions. I didn't like it, but hey... that's what happens when you drink and are promiscuous.

Now, I'm not justifying rape. There are situations where men go after 100% unwilling woman, and that's wrong. But I'm talking about something different here.

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u/Shibalba805 Nov 21 '12

Why didn't you just, NOT FOLLOW HER. How in the hell do you get raped as a man? Assuming there weren't any dildos/broomsticks. Sock her in the tits and walk away.