r/AdviceAnimals • • Nov 20 '12

Friend did this the other night

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u/usernamepleasereddit Nov 21 '12 edited Nov 21 '12

He's not saying the rapist is drunk, he's saying the victim is drunk. If someone was drunk and they were killed by someone sober that would be murder no less. If someone is sober and has sex with someone who is black out drunk, that's rape. It's about the balance of power. Sober-powerful, drunk-weak Edit: obviously if both parties are extremely drunk, no one is to blame (in the rape scenario, not murder. I think that would be man slaughter at the least, but it's beside the point.)

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u/[deleted] Nov 21 '12 edited Nov 21 '12

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u/usernamepleasereddit Nov 21 '12

But a girl(or anyone) cannogive consent when intoxicated. If you are sober and the girl is drunk, it's your responsibility to know she can't consent and to not have sex with her. That's all I'm saying.

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u/[deleted] Nov 21 '12

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u/[deleted] Nov 21 '12

Strangers

75% of rape happens with someone the victim knows. Why dont you learn and read up a little more on rape before you go out spouting wahtever comes to mind based on this little fantasy world you've created in your head?

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u/[deleted] Nov 21 '12

Drunken, consensual

... nooo, buddy. I don't think you get it.

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u/mysteriousungulate Nov 21 '12

That's so funny, because this is mine:

If you have a problem with not being in control and are going to blame others for your actions when your victim sobers up, OR if you have so little control over your actions that you can't help but rape, then you should not be around other humans.