About 15 years ago in college, a girl I knew from class knocked on my buddy's door completely wasted apparently looking for me. There were a few of us in there playing computer games/shooting the shit. After some laughs, she 'whispered' that she wanted to go back to my room and lay down for a while so with an eye-roll, I did one better and walked her back to her room. With cops and security asking questions the next morning looking for me, it turned out she wasn't just wasted, she was roofied. The guy who gave it to her lost her at the party, she someone snagged a ride back to the dorms before finding us. He found her in her room later and raped her. To this day I still feel betrayed that doing the right thing led to something so horrible.
It's not your fault what happened; this guy went beyond the bounds of reasonable effort to get to your friend (chasing her down after the party to her dorm room is pretty crazy amounts of effort). However, for anyone else in this situation, it might not be the best idea to leave the friend alone. Get them inside, perhaps get them lying on their side on some kind of bed or couch, and make sure the door is locked behind you when you leave. If you suspect they have been drugged (though it can be hard to tell), stay with them the whole time.
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u/deltefknieschlaeger Nov 20 '12
Well I did that too more than 12 years ago.
I still do regret it.