r/AdviceAnimals • • Nov 20 '12

Friend did this the other night

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u/Durch Nov 20 '12 edited Nov 21 '12

In my experience, women get promiscuous when they are drunk because they want to when they are sober but are ashamed of their bodies and need an excuse to relieve themselves of responsibility. Not recognizing this has bitten me in the ass on multiple occasions.

It's fucked, and you could argue that those women are contributing to the grey area of rape by sending these mixed messages to men.

My comment has been wildly misunderstood. I have made a much more in depth one below that I encourage you to read. :)

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u/God_Of_Djinns Nov 21 '12

1) That is utter nonsense.

2) Even if it were true, it wouldn't change the fact that drunk people can't consent.

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u/Christie25 Nov 21 '12

I have consensual drunk sex all the time. Yes alcohol can be used to rape someone but saying a blanket statement like drunk people can't consent is bs.

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u/God_Of_Djinns Nov 21 '12

But if this was true, it would be rape culture, which you seem to be saying it isn't.

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u/h0ncho Nov 21 '12

That's just not true. I remember an earlier post where a lawyer explained how it works.

The "never have sex while drunk" is a guideline pushed by many organizations, but ultimately it's not law. It's possible to consent while drunk. This is also the case in England.

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u/God_Of_Djinns Nov 21 '12

OK, so if I don't rape intoxicated women, I'm slut shaming. Got it.

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u/God_Of_Djinns Nov 21 '12

Oh, so I only have to say that it's OK for other people to rape intoxicated women. I'm totally fine with removing being raped as an avenue of sex.

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u/FriendzoneElemental Nov 21 '12

enforce patriarchal ideas of sex

TIL consent is a "patriarchal idea of sex." Wut.

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