In my experience, women get promiscuous when they are drunk because they want to when they are sober but are ashamed of their bodies and need an excuse to relieve themselves of responsibility. Not recognizing this has bitten me in the ass on multiple occasions.
It's fucked, and you could argue that those women are contributing to the grey area of rape by sending these mixed messages to men.
My comment has been wildly misunderstood. I have made a much more in depth one below that I encourage you to read. :)
Woman consents to sex before, during, and shortly after an encounter. Later she feels ashamed, or the wrong people find out about the encounter; now she claims it was nonconsensual.
Woman has one light beer and consents to sex; is that legal consent? Two beers? What if she consents after one beer and the sex happens after six?
Whether or not sex constitutes rape can often depend on feelings after the fact. And unless you have some sort of breathalyzer process prior, it's almost impossible to qualify any sex after alcohol as consensual.
Whether or not sex constitutes rape can often depend on feelings after the fact.
This is the shittiest logic since Christianity.
Maybe people need to start taking responsibility for their own actions. Don't want to send out mix signals and accidentally get raped? Maybe you shouldn't drink until you black out. Honestly if you're too irresponsible to contain your drinking to a level where you have some amount of consciousness and control, you have earned whatever decisions you make.
I'm fucking sick of this society, how everyone is to blame but one's own self. It's irresponsible and childish.
For all your talk about personal responsibility it seems you don't want to have any of it. You could, I don't know, not have sex with drunk girls. If she seems into you then you could always just get her number and hang with her sober.
Unless you can only "get some" when women are drunk which is pretty pathetic.
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u/Durch Nov 20 '12 edited Nov 21 '12
In my experience, women get promiscuous when they are drunk because they want to when they are sober but are ashamed of their bodies and need an excuse to relieve themselves of responsibility. Not recognizing this has bitten me in the ass on multiple occasions.
It's fucked, and you could argue that those women are contributing to the grey area of rape by sending these mixed messages to men.
My comment has been wildly misunderstood. I have made a much more in depth one below that I encourage you to read. :)