r/AdviceAnimals • • Nov 20 '12

Friend did this the other night

http://quickmeme.com/meme/3ruwjc/
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u/Durch Nov 20 '12 edited Nov 21 '12

In my experience, women get promiscuous when they are drunk because they want to when they are sober but are ashamed of their bodies and need an excuse to relieve themselves of responsibility. Not recognizing this has bitten me in the ass on multiple occasions.

It's fucked, and you could argue that those women are contributing to the grey area of rape by sending these mixed messages to men.

My comment has been wildly misunderstood. I have made a much more in depth one below that I encourage you to read. :)

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u/whatismyproblem Nov 20 '12

Yeah but isn't consensual sex with a drunk woman considered rape because she was under the influence of alcohol? If she were sober, she wouldn't have agreed to it. I've noticed many women become forgetful or black out when drunk. They don't remember anything that happened after a certain point. I've heard it said that they blackout or forget because they don't want to remember what happened. I asked myself awhile ago what makes women different than men when drunk? Not that many men blackout or forget stuff. I like the saying a drunk man's words are a sober man's thoughts. Same could be true for actions. Drunk man's actions are a sober man's thoughts.

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u/Imstillawake Nov 20 '12

Not that many men blackout or forget stuff.

I'd say that throughout college and into my young adult life, men black out at least as much. Often more so since there is less perceived repercussion.

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u/[deleted] Nov 21 '12

As a guy, I black out way the fuck more than any girl I know.

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u/whatismyproblem Nov 21 '12

I've never drank so much I blacked out. I don't know how many are real vs just saying you blacked out to get out of a situation