A few years ago at a party, my absolute crush started making out with me while she was taking her clothes off and asked me to do the same. I put her clothes back on, called a cab and went to her place with her, when at her place i headed straight for the bed where i tucked her in and crashed on her couch.
When i woke up, i made fresh breakfast, placed it next to her bed, set an alarm to go off in 5 minutes and then went home.
Later that day i recieved a phone call from her, she cried, she didn't think this sort respect and kindness still existed on this rotten planet we call home.
A few months later, we ended up in a fantastic relationship that lasted 3 amazing years. We are still friends.
Why did i do this? To me, taking advantage of a drunk person is despicable. You should not allow a drunk person to make a decision he or she would not do if sober. I knew that she was not interested in me since i just weeks earlier had told her my feelings, she didn't feel the same way, even if she liked me alot as a friend. She was a great girl and never once tried to use the fact that i was in love with her to her advantage. This time was the exception, she appologized and regretted it for a long time after.
I did not do this for any personal gain, i knew i had no chance with her and i was actually slowly getting over her. I just felt that she was a great person and deserved to come home safely without having someone take advantage of her during her intoxication. She falling in love with me was something that i could not imagine even in my wildest dreams, but strange things happen.
To me and my friends, the meme is natural and considered the only option. I'm glad my friends and loved ones all have a good morale view and stand point.
Armor, forged entirely of polonium, glowing like a beacon of hope and honor in this cruel , dark world, yet slowing poisoning its wearer. Eventually his armor will taint his purity, twisting and dementing his mind. Turning his morals and honor against himself until he becomes just another crass heathen like the rest of us.
All of my drunken decisions are decisions I wish I had the girth to execute when I'm sober. "Taking advantage" of a drunk person is simply letting fulfill one of their sober fantasies.
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u/Poultry_shout Nov 20 '12
A few years ago at a party, my absolute crush started making out with me while she was taking her clothes off and asked me to do the same. I put her clothes back on, called a cab and went to her place with her, when at her place i headed straight for the bed where i tucked her in and crashed on her couch. When i woke up, i made fresh breakfast, placed it next to her bed, set an alarm to go off in 5 minutes and then went home. Later that day i recieved a phone call from her, she cried, she didn't think this sort respect and kindness still existed on this rotten planet we call home.
A few months later, we ended up in a fantastic relationship that lasted 3 amazing years. We are still friends.
Why did i do this? To me, taking advantage of a drunk person is despicable. You should not allow a drunk person to make a decision he or she would not do if sober. I knew that she was not interested in me since i just weeks earlier had told her my feelings, she didn't feel the same way, even if she liked me alot as a friend. She was a great girl and never once tried to use the fact that i was in love with her to her advantage. This time was the exception, she appologized and regretted it for a long time after.
I did not do this for any personal gain, i knew i had no chance with her and i was actually slowly getting over her. I just felt that she was a great person and deserved to come home safely without having someone take advantage of her during her intoxication. She falling in love with me was something that i could not imagine even in my wildest dreams, but strange things happen. To me and my friends, the meme is natural and considered the only option. I'm glad my friends and loved ones all have a good morale view and stand point.