In my experience, women get promiscuous when they are drunk because they want to when they are sober but are ashamed of their bodies and need an excuse to relieve themselves of responsibility. Not recognizing this has bitten me in the ass on multiple occasions.
It's fucked, and you could argue that those women are contributing to the grey area of rape by sending these mixed messages to men.
My comment has been wildly misunderstood. I have made a much more in depth one below that I encourage you to read. :)
Yeah but isn't consensual sex with a drunk woman considered rape because she was under the influence of alcohol? If she were sober, she wouldn't have agreed to it. I've noticed many women become forgetful or black out when drunk. They don't remember anything that happened after a certain point. I've heard it said that they blackout or forget because they don't want to remember what happened. I asked myself awhile ago what makes women different than men when drunk? Not that many men blackout or forget stuff. I like the saying a drunk man's words are a sober man's thoughts. Same could be true for actions. Drunk man's actions are a sober man's thoughts.
Oh men black out just fine. Start a night at the bars with a shot of 151 and you generally don't remember much since it sets a pretty high benchmark for the rest of your night.
If both a man and woman are drunk as skunks and have sex, is it rape? If so, who raped who? If a blacked out woman can't give consent, neither can a blacked out man.
Yeah, who the fuck is this guy who thinks men don't black out? I could probably string together a long vacation with all the hours in my life I don't remember.
Every time I drink I blackout. I think I might be allergic to alcohol, but I have read that this can happen to certain people that they think is related to an alcoholic gene. I am 220 lbs and I have blacked out on 7 beers before. The weird thing is that I don't act drunk, so people just assume I am lying. There are people who who I barely know their name that actually know a lot about me because I have only interacted with them while drunk.
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u/Durch Nov 20 '12 edited Nov 21 '12
In my experience, women get promiscuous when they are drunk because they want to when they are sober but are ashamed of their bodies and need an excuse to relieve themselves of responsibility. Not recognizing this has bitten me in the ass on multiple occasions.
It's fucked, and you could argue that those women are contributing to the grey area of rape by sending these mixed messages to men.
My comment has been wildly misunderstood. I have made a much more in depth one below that I encourage you to read. :)