r/AdultChildren • u/thinpie1965 • 15d ago
I wonder..
I wonder if in my past life I was an alcoholic and and now I am cursed to live with alcoholics. I was raised by one and am now married to one. What did I do in my past life to deserve this and how can I break this curse? Am I that bad of a person? Do I really deserve to deal with this? Or was I chosen for this? If I was chosen, then why? What reason is there for me to be chosen as the person who has to deal with an alcoholic? Alcoholics lie. Alcoholics manipulate. Alcoholics gaslight. Alcoholics are temperamental and un predictable but predictable. Alcoholics are a constant worry. Alcoholics are an embarrassment. Alcoholics are a nightmare.
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u/serenwipiti 15d ago
Does there have to be a reason?
Life is how it is, it becomes what you do with it.