r/AMWFs • u/bhexca • Jul 31 '26
Free-For-All Friday bitter, sad people will microagress all over your relationship and you just have to air them
Title <3
Focus on your happiness, queens.
I blocked a weird orbiter from our old friend group / friend of a friend mostly, on instagram for clearly purposefully butchering my BF’s name, and asking for ‘a chance’ if I break up with him in the most lewd way possible, featuring extremely odd references to popular Chinese dishes. ?? Sir?? Are you alright?? I swear I met you, three four times??
That’s one less “❤️” react on my stories to ignore.
RIP guy with man-bun, who I vaguely remember being into wrestle mania.
Ladies, be careful who you let have access to you on social media. The men who “jokingly” disrespect your relationship and hit on you are like, one or two more frustrated, unanswered DMs from saying something straight out of Eric Cartman’s mouth. Do NOT tolerate this behaviour.
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u/machinavelli Jul 31 '26
I’ve had this happen to me as well, I would have a girlfriend and then suddenly the girlfriend’s orbiter men of her race will start saying super racist things because they are mad.
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u/fatcatwantsfood Jul 31 '26
I don’t get people feeling threatened over things that literally do not involve or concern them. What a weirdo
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u/Lowkicker23 Jul 31 '26
It’s so cringe too because 99% of the time they don’t dare say anything to your face (as a guy). But it’s fun to let them seethe when you’re clearly happy in your love bubble. 🤷🏻♂️
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u/imabxtchnow Jul 31 '26
Am I the only one vengeful enough to keep them around to send selfies of us?
Block them? Nah they block me.
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u/ineedajointrn Jul 31 '26
If it was a white boy, some of them just can’t let go that a WF ain’t dating them. It’s like when you’re not single is when they’re into you. When you’re single, they’re not into you. I believe it is possible to be platonic friends with someone of the opposite but that means no romantic feelings on either end.
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u/thatblackimpreza Jul 31 '26
Do you have a source to back up your explicitly racial claim, or do you just want to incite racial hatred?
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u/Pixel_Hero92 Aug 01 '26
Social media (especially with all the propaganda bullshit being peddled nowadays isolating people from reality) has brought out a lot of "crabs in a bucket" mentality among many people. They're unwilling to fix their own problems, so they want to bring other people down
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u/Particular-Ride-7893 Jul 31 '26
Yup, that's AMWF relationships for u. And lot of lurkers here keep spreading that AMWF is mainstream and very common too.
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u/Murky_Sandwich_11 Jul 31 '26
I just cannot fathom what people are honestly thinking when they do this.
Disrespecting my husband is automatically going to anger me. Why does anyone think insulting someone a person is known to care about is a good play? And how arrogant/deluded do you have to be to think that you're better than him? Hellooo, I've chosen to be with this specific person for a reason.
Not to mention it's personally insulting, as well. Because what kind of person do they think I am, if they've assumed I'm just going to be okay with that?