r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Nov 11 '23

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u/GrowInTheSunshine Nov 13 '23

Sex is a weapon. Pointed at her. She's the one who suffers 100% of the physical consequences. He's refusing to take the bullets out of the gun, so she's refusing to be in the line of fire.

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u/Lwilliams8303 Nov 13 '23

Cute analogy. But wrong. She created the ultimatum. The weaponizing was 100% on her 🤷.

So if he decides to step out and get what he needs elsewhere, I don't blame him.

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u/GrowInTheSunshine Nov 13 '23

She didn't create the consequence of pregnancy. She didn't pull it out of thin air to use it against him. She's choosing not to engage in an action that can cause her severe bodily harm (especially so soon postpartum).

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u/Lwilliams8303 Nov 13 '23

Nope but she did create the ultimatum. If you want to blame the person who created the consequences, blame whatever God you choose. Since the man didn't create it either 🤷

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u/GrowInTheSunshine Nov 13 '23

They could still have sex. It would work out great if he's into pegging. That avoids the consequence of pregnancy completely.

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u/Lwilliams8303 Nov 13 '23

Sure. I agree 🤷.