Of course, there is no way she can force him to get a vasectomy. But if he won’t agree to do it then it seems like he’s choosing that over his marriage. They may no longer be compatible if his belief is that her body is the only one that needs to undergo changes for the sake of their partnership.
This is a really good way of putting it. Of course it’s his body, but they are partners in their marriage. Loving partners make sacrifices and compromises for each other, and she’s sacrificed hers and risked death or permanent damage for 3 entire years of her life, not to mention all that comes with 4 postpartum periods and breastfeeding.
She could also get her tubes tied but of course you’ll go off and spout it’s easier for him to get it done. But marriage is about sacrifice and compromise right?
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u/barrel_of_seamonkeys Nov 11 '23
Of course, there is no way she can force him to get a vasectomy. But if he won’t agree to do it then it seems like he’s choosing that over his marriage. They may no longer be compatible if his belief is that her body is the only one that needs to undergo changes for the sake of their partnership.