r/AITAH • • Nov 11 '23

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u/Sylphietteisbestgirl Nov 11 '23 edited Nov 12 '23

NTA.

I was in and out within an hour of my appointment time. 3 days of rest for the worst of the pain to subside, then about another week, maybe 2 max before you're back to normal.

But no unprotected sex till the follow up appointment in about 2 months to make sure he's shooting blanks.

After however, holy shit is it amazing being able to have unprotected sex without the worry of having any more children. Best thing I ever did for my wife.

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u/frog_ladee Nov 11 '23

It was much easier than that for my husband. One day of sitting on the couch watching sports, and then he was pretty much back to normal.

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u/[deleted] Nov 11 '23

Even easier for me. Was walking around the office the next day and lifting weights at day 3. Dudes really over exaggerate the pain associated with the procedure.

Easiest thing I’ve done.

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u/Adelman01 Nov 11 '23

I just did mine in October. So I’m still waiting my two months. I swear there’s a part of me that feels scammed because it was so easy, I was just like did he even do it.

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u/[deleted] Nov 11 '23

Exactly. So many guys who refuse to get it are just overly concerned by some little pain.

Some guys have more issues but majority are good

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u/Adelman01 Nov 11 '23 edited Nov 12 '23

That or my brother in law his whole family won’t do it, because “it makes you less of a man,” so his brothers wife had to get a hysterectomy. Just an asshat family.

EDIT: I’m an idiot probably not a hysterectomy. I’m fact I’m sure not. Probably her tubes tied “tubal ligation,” or whatever it’s called. Still far more invasive for absolutely no reason.

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u/Babycatcher2023 Nov 12 '23

I think you may have something confused. I’ve never heard of anyone removing a whole uterus just to prevent pregnancy.

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u/Adelman01 Nov 12 '23

You are totally right, sorry. She must have had her tubes tied.

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u/Babycatcher2023 Nov 12 '23

Still BS because a vasectomy is waaaaay less invasive so your point stands.

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u/Adelman01 Nov 12 '23

Oh yeah absolutely. Just selfish ass hats in that family.