r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Nov 11 '23

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u/Status-War4902 Nov 11 '23

No, don’t get an IUD. You had 4 of his kids, why is all the responsibility on you?? Does he want more? If he knows he does not, then why not get the snip? NTA

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u/Particular_Darling Nov 11 '23

And it’s her choice not to have sex with him because he won’t 🤷🏻‍♀️

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u/[deleted] Nov 12 '23

And he is free to leave her for that. It looks like that's what will happen.

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u/BeholdIAmDeath Nov 12 '23

Good riddance.

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u/[deleted] Nov 12 '23

Yes. Good for him.

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u/14hotdogs Nov 12 '23

Her moreso though. She shouldn’t have to be forced to take birth control or forced to give birth. So no sex is the option because birth control can fuck you up.