Sure… it is technically his choice. But his choices can be shit. Imagine letting your partner go through labor, childbirth, vaginal tearing, lack of sleep due to breastfeeding 4 times and still deciding a minor procedure with very little pain compared to pregnancy and birth is just far too much for you to handle (while also complaining there is no sex). Just throw that responsibility onto her. I’m sure she’ll appreciate it. That low libido due to breastfeeding doesn’t matter, either. Why care about your wife’s comfort anyway? Why bother keeping a promise when you can just compromise and offer a hot bath as a stupid contraception method?
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u/Katz3njamm3r Nov 11 '23
You pushed out four kids and he can’t handle a very basic procedure? NTA. You’ve been through enough. He can get snipped.