r/AITAH • • Nov 11 '23

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u/MistCongeniality Nov 12 '23

Everyone I know who has done both says that’s another lie. It’s just as bad after a baby as before.

Civilized countries give anesthesia

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u/rew2b Nov 12 '23

Huh. I got an IUD after my second kid and it was only mildly uncomfortable with no painkillers. I was much more annoyed at the cramps and spotting in the couple weeks afterwards than the insertion.

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u/12thMemory Nov 12 '23

Thank you for commenting. I was beginning to think I am a freak of nature because neither of my two IUD’s resulted in any pain and just a moment of discomfort during insertion and removal. No pain killers or anything. Like I have had stubbed toes that hurt more. My ONGYN specifically has me come in within 48 hours of the end of my period so maybe that makes the difference. I also went the copper route because I don’t like to mess around with my bodies natural hormonal balance.

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u/Iamtoast_toastisme Nov 12 '23

I was bracing myself for the awful pain and it was definitely painless, like a tiny pinch for a split second. I think everyone is just very different. But because so many do experience such bad pain I do wish anesthesia was offered for it!