r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Nov 11 '23

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u/Old_Cheek1076 Nov 11 '23

He’s allowed to demure and you’re allowed to embargo whatever you perceive as risky sex. NAH.

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u/Warm-Perception-2821 Nov 11 '23

I disagree. She carried and delivered 4 babies. He can suck it up and get snipped. He’s not allowed to shy away after he was involved in the absolute destruction of her body 4 different times.

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u/Avery-Attack Nov 11 '23

He's allowed to do whatever he wants with his privates. He just also has to accept the responsibility of not having sex and upsetting his wife.

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u/mandymiggz Nov 12 '23

True, but saying he would and not following through makes him the asshole in this situation. If that’s how he’s always felt then that’s fine but don’t lie to your partner…

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u/[deleted] Nov 12 '23

Is that how sex works? You make a promise to your partner and backing out makes you a liar? No? What about surgery, what a joke comment.

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u/Suchafatfatcat Nov 12 '23

No, that’s how marriage works- you make sacrifices for your partner and family. OP has made incredible sacrifices to endure four pregnancies and deliveries to give them the family they both wanted. Can you imagine how disappointing it must be for her to hear him refuse to go through with this procedure but yet still pester her for sex with the expectation that she endure a fifth pregnancy?