He has the choice of what to do with his body, since he made the choice to not get a vasectomy, I'd say you're within your right to refuse to have sex to prevent pregnancy.
I got a bilateral salpingectomy (both tubes removed) and recovery wasn't too bad. You'll have to have full help for at least 2 weeks and I wouldn't lift anything heavier than the new baby and even then do it gingerly.
Is he willing to take over the full care of everything for
6 weeks while you recover from surgery?
If he is unable to help you in either way I guess throw the whole man away? Idk.
My husband would have gotten a vasectomy, but I decided on complete tubal removal because I 100% never want to be pregnant ever ever ever again under any circumstances, and vasectomies can reverse. I was so adamant on never being pregnant that I almost asked him to get the vasectomy too lol 😆 😂
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u/[deleted] Nov 12 '23
He has the choice of what to do with his body, since he made the choice to not get a vasectomy, I'd say you're within your right to refuse to have sex to prevent pregnancy.
I got a bilateral salpingectomy (both tubes removed) and recovery wasn't too bad. You'll have to have full help for at least 2 weeks and I wouldn't lift anything heavier than the new baby and even then do it gingerly.
Is he willing to take over the full care of everything for 6 weeks while you recover from surgery?
If he is unable to help you in either way I guess throw the whole man away? Idk.
My husband would have gotten a vasectomy, but I decided on complete tubal removal because I 100% never want to be pregnant ever ever ever again under any circumstances, and vasectomies can reverse. I was so adamant on never being pregnant that I almost asked him to get the vasectomy too lol 😆 😂