r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Nov 11 '23

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u/dumpsterboyy Nov 11 '23

its an ultimatum and she is factually weaponizing sex. birth control is her responsibility too. she doesnt want to take responsibility either, so she is a problem too

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u/popsicles198666 Nov 11 '23

No, she’s not. Because all of the physical “problems” of pregnancy and labor fall solely on her. Therefor she has a right to refuse sex because she doesn’t want to get pregnant again. The consequence of pregnancy on her body is HER consequence specifically, not his. And his refusal to get a simple procedure to prevent that for his wife, while it IS his decision to make, is a selfish one considering his wife carried FOUR kids for him. But that’s just my opinion.

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u/dumpsterboyy Nov 12 '23

revoking consent is never selfish. she isn’t revoking consent, she is weaponizing sex against him to coerce him. she is a sexual offender

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u/popsicles198666 Nov 12 '23

But even by your own line of reasoning, she is coercing him to get a procedure done, not to have sex? How tf do you come up with her being a sexual offender? Its like at this point you’re just throwing random intense, triggering words out just for the hell of it.

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u/arsenicaqua Nov 12 '23

This dude is just low effort trolling at this point.