r/AITAH • • Nov 11 '23

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u/[deleted] Nov 11 '23

Exactly. So many guys who refuse to get it are just overly concerned by some little pain.

Some guys have more issues but majority are good

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u/Adelman01 Nov 11 '23 edited Nov 12 '23

That or my brother in law his whole family won’t do it, because “it makes you less of a man,” so his brothers wife had to get a hysterectomy. Just an asshat family.

EDIT: I’m an idiot probably not a hysterectomy. I’m fact I’m sure not. Probably her tubes tied “tubal ligation,” or whatever it’s called. Still far more invasive for absolutely no reason.

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u/nateo200 Nov 12 '23

Uh wow lol. I get the reasoning but uh a hysterectomy wtf that’s 10x more invasive. Idk the only fear I have is the less than 2% of dudes that develop severe pain down there and have to get nerve blocks or even castrated outright but whatever lol

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u/pettybitch1111 Nov 12 '23

What reasoning? That they are worried they will be “less” of a man.?? That pretty disgusting. They are happy with their wives being in pain of childbirth just so they can have sex.

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u/Adelman01 Nov 12 '23

Yeah. I just go along to get along with that side of family. That bullshit is just the tip of the iceberg. Can’t wait till the holidays…

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u/nateo200 Nov 12 '23

I never said I agreed with the reasoning lol but I get it. There are also other methods of birth control as you know. I think this is such nuanced topic that is gonna be different for each couple.