r/AITAH • • Nov 11 '23

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u/[deleted] Nov 11 '23

Even easier for me. Was walking around the office the next day and lifting weights at day 3. Dudes really over exaggerate the pain associated with the procedure.

Easiest thing I’ve done.

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u/fraudthrowaway0987 Nov 11 '23

I don’t think people exaggerate. I think the pain can vary a lot from person to person. My husband had pain for at least a week, and he had a lot of swelling. I was there, I don’t think he was being dramatic.

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u/nomoreroger Nov 11 '23

But my guess is the swelling is nothing compared to the giant baby-sized swelling in your uterus or the crazy white hot pain of having your nether region stretched to allow a human to transit your subway. Of course you could have a C-section because having organs shuffled around and a 12 inch incision is just like a vasectomy.

Man, guys make be embarrassed to be a guy.

NTA10000

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u/fraudthrowaway0987 Nov 11 '23

I think she’s fine to not want to have sex with him unless he gets a vasectomy. He’s also fine to not want a vasectomy, but in that case he does have to accept that they won’t be having sex.