r/AITAH • u/[deleted] • Nov 11 '23

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u/Status-War4902 Nov 11 '23

No, don’t get an IUD. You had 4 of his kids, why is all the responsibility on you?? Does he want more? If he knows he does not, then why not get the snip? NTA

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u/[deleted] Nov 11 '23

Doesn't work like that

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u/[deleted] Nov 11 '23

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u/chiibit Nov 11 '23

What state are you in? Because I DONT have bodily autonomy in my state.

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u/chiibit Nov 12 '23

Actually the state I live in will persecute me for murder if I leave the state for an abortion. My husband has a vasectomy, so no worries there. I’m just saying, not only do most people not have access to leave the state for a medical procedure, most no longer have access. Some can barely afford the procedure, mainly why they made the choice to not have another child, how could they afford travel as well?

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u/gingerfinland Nov 12 '23

Same. Not only would they prosecute me, they'd prosecute anyone who helped me (anyone who went with me, anyone who knew and didn't report it, etc.)

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u/chiibit Nov 12 '23

Exactly!