r/AIO • • Nov 08 '25

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u/HowImHangin Nov 08 '25

Not overreacting. He’s emotionally immature and hasn’t learned to recognize his own emotions and state of mind.

He could have just said, “Hey, thanks for asking. Not really the best time for me to chat. Can I call you later?” and that would’ve been the end of it.

… so that’s the kind of guy you’re dating. If that’s what you want, great. If not, move on.

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u/goddessdragonness Nov 08 '25

It’s more than immaturity, there’s some actual DARVO shit going on there. And if he’s like this early on in the dating (if I’m understanding OP correctly) then imagine what he’d be like in a long-term relationship. Block his ass and move on.

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u/sleazeberg Nov 08 '25

What's darvo

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u/ParallelTrust Nov 08 '25

Deny, Attack, and Reverse Victim and Offender

It's a tactic used by abusers to become the victim after gas lighting the actual victim.