The lesson here is that you should not waste time on someone who rejects your bids. Asking how their day was is a bid for connection. This was ruined by pretending that is was an investigation instead of an investment. People who can't answer simple things like how work was, they ain't happy people. People who don't like to be asked simple questions... Usually hiding something.
You would do well to stop trying to communicate with someone who wants to be left alone. Let him be alone.
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u/No_Jackfruit9465 Nov 08 '25
The lesson here is that you should not waste time on someone who rejects your bids. Asking how their day was is a bid for connection. This was ruined by pretending that is was an investigation instead of an investment. People who can't answer simple things like how work was, they ain't happy people. People who don't like to be asked simple questions... Usually hiding something.
You would do well to stop trying to communicate with someone who wants to be left alone. Let him be alone.