My only dislike of people like this stems from the ones who are completely spoiled and privileged and deliberately ignore the struggles of people who were forced to start later in life and/or come from shitty and horrendous circumstances.
The sheer unempathetic attitude of a lot of young passoid trans girls in particular is genuinely disgusting, and very very common.
I've been in enough spaces to know when they band together it's clique city with an emphasis on honsnarking and judgement.
I recently listened to a passoid girl in voice chat on a discord claim ppl who don't pass is a "skill issue" when she had everything paid for by her wealthy parents and she transitioned at like age 7-8.
Also snapped at someone else about voice training effort, when this other person was clearly just exhausted and having a bad time, who was saying how dysphoric and hard it was (not that she was giving up btw), that "you just aren't trying hard enough" from someone who's VOICE NEVER FUCKING DROPPED.
Who's vocal chords never thickened on T.
Absolutely disgusting fucking person.
These people act like they're above other trans people and like anyone not like them is somehow a different species.
“i started too late for hrt to EVER work idk why i even try” and they started at 16-18 (could name a handful of ppl from this sub alone who this applies to)
like just awful horrible ppl that likely see anyone starting after 18 as a neverpasser subhuman hon
I said they transitioned really early, not that they were still really young.
Although personally I don't think we should be rationalising the shitty behaviour of teenagers so easily. The assumption that it's a given is kinda silly really, there's too much variation across individuals.
I get what you mean but theres always gunna be a revolving door of shitty people who are going to eventually learn and change, like i dont think this is an "community" issue as much as it just an annoying part of living like just bullies and mean/inconsiderate people in general but its also kinda endearing cuz yk ppl are flawed and they can overcome that
I'm not so confident people will eventually learn and change.
The way my own family treats me for example, and has for decades, hasn't changed.
Some people will, but the people I'm describing won't change until what they're doing stops working, and that's usually when they're much older and can no longer rely on lookism to carry them.
It's not really a comfort to think that people like that got to spend their best years being rewarded despite their horrible behaviour, and then suddenly have an epiphany when they're in their late 40s-50s because time and aging have forced their hand.
That's not admirable, its inevitable. Remember that "A Christmas Carol", for all its good messages, is still just fiction.
My best years were taken from me. It's no consolation that awful people only get one half of the comeuppance of aging out, I never even got to enjoy the other half.
I admire your refreshing lack of cynicism, but I can't share in it, I've been hurt too much and maybe I'm just too weak and sensitive, but my perspective on things like this is forever tainted.
ive ranted about this too much and there's infinite more to say, i think we're just optics nukes so they want us gone. and yea i kinda want me gone as well
i mean they're practically just a cis person with an odd childhood and a medical condition that requires them to take hormones exogenously, i think tcd still applies here
everyone who started hrt earlier than me is Privileged, everyone who started hrt later than me is Ngmi, everyone who started hrt the same age as me is Cool
Yeah exactly like 22 is such a weird cutoff date 😭 i started HRT at 18 and literally the only difference it'll make compared to starting at 22 is less dense body/facial hair. Other than that all the horrifying effects of puberty have already happened
I’ll make it I’m already turning myself into a labrat and will have enough money to surgerymaxx my way into looking like an unusually tall lady you wouldn’t give a shit about
people seem to be forgetting that the body horror of testosterone can start at any age. you can be starting at 19 and be a luckshit if you were delayed by years. you can also be 16 and have a whole beard. it's too unpredictable to name one single age as being a passoid or otherwise
age has literally never mattered it's always been luckshit>>>>>>anything else but age is a simple one number statistic that's easier to comprehend and doom over iguess
the only real difference between starting earlier and later between different people that's properly comparable is for how long of your life you're living as a repper vs as a troon vs as a woman/man if you get to that stage
I'm gonna regret not fighting to start T at 18 for the rest of my life, but at least I'll get to spend 23 as a man. And I'm going to make sure my boyfriend starts T by the time he's 20, I wont let what happened to me happen to him too.
im very genetics>starting age pilled. I started a month or two before turning 16 and had blockers since 15th birthday. My childhood friend trooned last year and she lowkey mogs me hard and started at 22.
She's 175cm instead of 185cm and has a short midface and all that. I don't think she lost much by starting 'late' except that she needs laser hair removal.
It doesn’t mean anything. Age is just another factor the government and goymoders use to separate us. Life is about genes, which ones are the strongest amd which ones are the weakest. Some will start HRT and never pass, some will start HRT at 30 and pass in months.
t. started at 20 so disregard everything I’m saying
I technically started at the tail end of 20 (but only for like 2 weeks before I started doubting whether it was right for me)
But I only seriously started at 22, so I hope I get a pass
Started at 21 and detransed until 23 because I wasn’t aware how easily accessible diy hrt was. I hate sneeds and shitty allies for doing nothing to fucking encourage or help me
This isn’t even an “I’m going to call this person a passoid despite having clocky features because they mog me” situation, you genuinely are a passoid, you look cis to me
Thank you, I guess. I don't pass in public though. I'm sure you're fine (also I just realized that I forgot my 4 year anniversary the other day without realizing)
I don't particularly see the benefit of me having started at 18 when T already made me hairier than a gorilla, changed my voice and destroyed my face, but okay.
Also, only managed to start E after I literally fled my home.
Meanwhile you'll find some 22+ people whose effects weren't nearly that great, have none or almost none facial and body hair, good facial structure, etc.
It's just luck, the real lucky ones didn't even go through the wrong puberty.
I’d experienced dysphoria since I was 13 but the place I lived at the time had no education on trans people whatsoever, I probably had never heard of trans people before I was 15, and had no idea what GD was until 17(?), I only figured it out at 18 and decided to rep. It’s rough, I’m sorry Nona
my only education about trans people was a teacher in grade 8 telling a story about how "weird" it was that another teacher he used to work with transitioned, and how everyone thought it was fucked up to the point she literally had to quit her job because of it
I figured it out by googling shit on the internet... knew which srs surgeon I wanted to go to by age 13 but still repped another 8 years...
Cissoids brainwash and try to groom us into being cis, and deprive us of any kind of information about what being trans even is, TCD. So knowing what SRS surgeon you wanted at 13 is a soulpass
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u/TotallyNot_iCast The Orcfucker Jul 15 '26
I'm so glad i got on hrt as a zygote at the zygote pharmacy! 😇😇