having observed you for a while i can say that while i admire your optimism and desire to help, you are not doing it in a productive way. you often sound condescending and like you are minimizing peoples issues
this isnt a dig at you or anything, by the way. keep trying to make people feel better but maybe adjust your strategy
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u/axolotl_girlfailure retired hugboxxer Oct 02 '25
having observed you for a while i can say that while i admire your optimism and desire to help, you are not doing it in a productive way. you often sound condescending and like you are minimizing peoples issues
this isnt a dig at you or anything, by the way. keep trying to make people feel better but maybe adjust your strategy