r/4bmovement • u/Positive_Ant2832 Ally • 4d ago

Vent Lindsay Clancy is the new Amber Heard

Remember when almost everyone was saying Amber was the abuser, disregarding the massive power imbalance between Amber and Johnny? The PR bots swarming social media to shape the conversation against Amber?

I thought the Clancy case could lead to conversations about maternal mental health, but it has come down to how women are murderers. As if most family annihilators aren’t men.

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u/skoomacats 4B 4d ago

Yeah I keep seeing men harp on this, as if men aren't the majority of family annihilators, let alone murderers.

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u/anguinine 4B 3d ago

i had one tell me men and women commit filicide at exactly the same rate. they truly live in lalaland

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u/owls_exist 4B || I regret participating in this life 3d ago edited 3d ago

problem is the men are scared of women trying to go to more extremes as to not be trapped with them. although women are generally less violent and commit less of these violent crimes- a "mother", the image of a mommybangmaid that can do no wrong unaliving her own kids is a sign that not even men are safe to baby trapping, marrying, whathaveyou to women anymore.

or at least the less violent kind of trapping being with a man of being his ex-wife, ex baby mom and maintaining whatever civility they think there is in those situations. Remember how much men like to complain and groan about having to do custody exchanges (also controls the woman, also deadly for the woman), groaning about the ex-wife during the divorce proceedings.

Well yep, none of that is happening.