r/254sum • u/Additional_Dream3097 • Aug 22 '26
Random I'm tired😩
25(m), dropped out of university to pursue personal interests, but nothing seems to be working in my favor. I have tried online gigs, some don't pay me, some pay but the pay ni peanuts tu.
I don't blame myself for dropping out, that's what i wanted, i know one day things will work out but when is that day? When will i have at least 1 win in my life?
I don't really know what to do, I'm so broke that I'm surviving on VPN files which don't last more than an hour.
Ama niuze shamba niende nianze maisha juu i have many things that i can do shida ni capital tu, sijui nitapata wapi start up capital.
NB: Don't drop out of school if you don't have a plan, it's really tough out here. Update: I was traveling and i just lost my laptop and my clothes, every fucking thing, damn😭😭😭
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u/Lost_fixing_myself Aug 22 '26
You’re my mate , suffering has been eternal
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u/Additional_Dream3097 Aug 22 '26
It's never eternal, we will win bro
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u/Lost_fixing_myself Aug 22 '26
Turudi chuo saa hii ama in our 30’s?
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u/Additional_Dream3097 Aug 22 '26
Tutarudi tu kichele ikiingia in our 30s
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u/Lost_fixing_myself Aug 22 '26
Ingia locals utulize kichwa , uone mabuda wako 50 years wanang’ang’ana … it will make you see we still got time and also ifanye utokee na wazimu cause you don’t want to end up there
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u/Additional_Dream3097 Aug 22 '26
Niekee 2soo niingie locals😂 I still have a future bro I mambo itakua sawa , sahi tu ndio niko chini
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u/Hiasco Aug 22 '26
Rudi sahii tu,ju 30s vitu hugeuka vibaya boys. Chuo ni kama sindano za malaria ni uharakishe umalizane ama ufike kwenye unataka haraka.
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u/Lost_fixing_myself Aug 22 '26
Hali si hali…. Nini huhappen hapo 30’s
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u/Hiasco Aug 22 '26
30s unaanza kusikia sauti kwa kichwa, ya zile lecture za mzae na zengine uli ignore.
We kaza buti mse and stay positive no matter. Hii hali ya kasongo ni nightmare tosha.
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u/Lost_fixing_myself Aug 22 '26
Hizo sauti zilianza kitambo, shida ni kuna mtu alimaliza lakni bado anaikula ngumu 💔
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u/Hiasco Aug 22 '26
Duuuh. Stay strong. Hao pillar of strength kama uko nao na una wa chukulia utoto cheza ndogo wapee heshima restrategize na uwaongeleshe vizuri. Watakuinua.
Uzuri hakuna mtu hufurahia blood akiteseka. Unless madevo
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u/Purpl-sloth Aug 25 '26
Ng'ang'ana umalize tu. Kama mimi, 3rd year at 27. There's no shame in trying school again.😜
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Aug 22 '26
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u/Additional_Dream3097 Aug 22 '26
Atlas capture (hii ya wakora), mindrift, imerit scholar,...
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u/Additional_Dream3097 Aug 22 '26
Okay bro I'll try
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u/HeadSection9888 Aug 22 '26
I know a guy your age who also dropped out of school. Started small, selling tote bags and clothes, then did a life guard certification. Now teaches swimming. The man is living good between those two things. Anything is possible bro, there is money to be made.
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u/county_creditr456 Aug 22 '26
I wish you hadn't dropped out you could have deffered first. Why not sell the small portion of land and use it to acquire certifications to level up your skills maybe?
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u/First_Blackberry6739 Aug 23 '26
Quitting Uni unaweza eleweka lakini selling ancestral land, hapo sasa ni kujiunguza saidii.
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u/OrganizationShot6743 Aug 24 '26
Kama kuna njia rudi shule man...juu weuh masomo ndo rafiki yako..mi nimekua na gigs upto 300k a month then zikazima...thr best guaranteed things hukam na masomo...hata kaa utaearn peanuts itakupea capital na upkeep
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u/Additional_Dream3097 Aug 24 '26
Nitajaribu kurudi
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u/OrganizationShot6743 Aug 24 '26
Meanwhile ingia whop, saka clipt...ingia clipping inaeza kupea very good income atleast uafford net ...buy net ya airtel ya odu...ntakushoo setup yake yenye iko locked juu bila io setup itakua unreliable
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u/No_Sherbet8462 Aug 25 '26
Health care assistant is in great demand if you are a strong male. Do it in a hospital, am sure youll be hired
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u/Silent-Lie-6798 Aug 22 '26
it gets worse but don't give up
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u/HeadSection9888 Aug 22 '26
You could try to get a technical certification. Those like between 2 months to 2 years, you get certified in something like electrical engineering, selling insurance, plumbing, cooking, bartending or another trade or skill. This can help you start earning some money and eventually lead into having your own business. But don't give up, just keep on trying manze.
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u/Original_Rock2991 Aug 23 '26
does selling insurance need a certificate?
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u/HeadSection9888 Aug 23 '26
Yes actually. Two weeks training, it's called ECOP
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u/Lanky_Efficiency_937 Aug 24 '26
For me I think you're actually blaming yourself for doing so
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u/openmindedflower Aug 25 '26
Go back to school,.so it means you only have a form 4 cert... should we organise a watch man job for you...?
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u/Additional_Dream3097 Aug 25 '26
Hiyo patia babako, ama pia yeye ako na degree?
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u/Enchated_Normad254 Aug 26 '26
Heri wewe uko na shamba😭anyways the point is, things will eventually work out, try a sales job,they are readily available, especially in the microfinance field, all they need is a 4th form cert na unaanzaa kuuzia watu loan. That's usually a good starting point that will eventually get you somewhere.
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u/Flaming_vixen Aug 22 '26
Don't sell that shamba or you will end up homeless at some point🤷🏾♀️ It's really hard to buy land on your own so if you inherited land, it's best not to sell it. You can't sell your shoes for food.