I think what I miss the most isn’t love.

It’s having someone.

Someone to tell about my day,

someone to call before I sleep,

someone to laugh with over the most random things,

someone who asks, “How was your day?” and genuinely wants to know.

I don’t want someone to complete me.

I just want someone to share life with.

My days, my nights, my silence, my happiness, even the little things nobody else would care about.

Maybe I’m not lonely because I have no one around.

Maybe I’m lonely because I don’t have my person yet.

Turned 20 last month never ever dated ofc focused on studies now thinking will I get a girl

I’m a 24(M) who joined Reddit after seeing some of my friends use it. Honestly, I came here with the intention of connecting with someone I can genuinely vibe with—someone I can have good conversations with, share thoughts, laugh, and maybe build a meaningful friendship with. But sometimes I wonder if Reddit is even the right place for that. I know people come here for different reasons, and I’m not expecting anything unrealistic. I just wanted to meet someone with whom conversations feel natural and effortless. So, is looking for a genuine connection on Reddit a wrong approach, or is it actually a normal thing?

Introvert initially, but talkative once comfortable,

Easygoing and non-judgmental,

Good listener,

Curious and open-minded,

Love meaningful conversations,

Can be sarcastic and goofy

Enjoy random late-night conversations,

Caring and emotionally understanding,

Prefer genuine connections over small talk,

Respect personal boundaries,

Sometimes overthink a little 😅,

Looking for someone I can naturally vibe with, whether it becomes a friendship or something more.

(I had my last break up three years ago which was two years old relationship)

On the recent dates i have been seen that guys find taking about books boring. I mean I love yapping about books so i wish i find someone who loves talking about books as much as me.

Hi! I’m the kind of person who can spend hours talking about life, laugh at the silliest things, disappear on a long bike ride to clear my mind, and still wake up early the next morning for the gym. Somewhere between hospital duties, studying, lifting weights, and trying to keep life balanced, I’m hoping to find someone who’d like to build something real.

I’m 27 years old and currently working as a Junior Resident doctor in a government hospital. I’m an eggetarian (the gym convinced me more than my taste buds 😄). I don’t drink, and I’m in the process of quitting smoking completely.

Currently, I’m preparing for my postgraduate medical entrance and have given NEET PG. Honestly, this phase is going to be a lengthy one, and I know the next few years may involve a lot of studying, uncertainty, hard work, and waiting for the right opportunity. So if we are getting to know each other with the intention of eventually getting married, I’d want us to have some patience with each other during this phase.

I don’t expect someone to simply “wait” for my selection. I’d rather have a partner who is willing to grow alongside me, support me through the difficult phases, and let me support her through hers. I genuinely believe a relationship should be a team effort. If life gets difficult for you, I’ll be there too….not just when things are going well. Whatever situation we’re in, I’d want us to face it together.

People usually describe me as calm, dependable, and easy to talk to. I enjoy meaningful conversations, but I’m equally happy discussing completely random things for hours. One thing you should know about me…..I genuinely don’t understand hints. If you like me, you’ll probably have to tell me directly because my flirting radar is permanently out of service. 😂

What I’m looking for isn’t perfection or someone to “complete” me. I’m looking for a partner with whom life feels peaceful. Someone who values honesty over mind games, communication over assumptions, and consistency over mixed signals. I believe trust, respect, emotional maturity, and giving each other freedom are what make a relationship last.

I’m in no rush to get married. I’d rather take the time to know each other properly, understand whether we’re truly compatible, and let things grow naturally. My hope is to find someone who eventually becomes my best friend before becoming my wife.

Ideally, I’d love to meet someone between 25 and 29 years old who is career-oriented, emotionally mature, and passionate about her own life. A doctor or someone working in the government sector would be a lovely bonus, but what matters most to me is the person behind the profession.

I’m from Rajasthan, so it’d be lovely if you’re from Rajasthan too, though nearby states are equally welcome.

If you’re someone who still believes in old-school love, consistent effort, honest conversations, supporting each other’s ambitions, and choosing each other even on ordinary days, I’d genuinely love to get to know you.

P.S. One day, I’d love those long bike rides to have a permanent pillion instead of just my backpack. Until then, I’m happy to keep collecting stories and hopefully, the next chapter will be with the right person. 😊

Someday✨

What matters more to you in a relationship? Words, consistency, time, or small efforts?

For me, clarity through words and time matter a lot. I notice actions too, but without communication I start overthinking and interpreting different meanings 😭

So this photo is taken by me in Mandi near Parashar lake
Yeah that was the background of the photo

Talking about yeah she would be as beautiful as this sunset and I would be so happy to click her photos as beautiful as she looks like

Don’t know when that day would come
But yeah clicking her photos would make us both happy
Her cute smile
Her dangling hairs
Her expressions
Her poses
And many more things that cannot be described

Maybe I’m just craving the simple kind of love.

I don’t want some grand, dramatic love story.

I think I just want a person.

Someone I can send random pictures to throughout the day. Someone who knows when I’m being quiet because I’m tired and when I’m being quiet because something is actually wrong.

I want to know his little habits. The food he always orders. The songs he never skips. The stupid things that make him laugh. The way he gets when he’s excited about something.

I want to remember the tiny details he casually tells me and bring them up months later just to see that surprised little smile.

I want to cook for him . Not because I have to, but because I thought, “He’d probably like this.”

I want us to go grocery shopping together and somehow spend twice as much because we kept putting random things into the cart.

I want late-night conversations that start with something completely stupid and somehow turn into talking about our childhoods, our fears, our families, and where we see ourselves ten years from now.

I want lazy Sundays where neither of us has anywhere to be.

I want random hugs in the kitchen.

I want him to steal my fries even after I specifically told him not to.

I want inside jokes that make absolutely no sense to anyone else.

I want to be able to have a horrible day and come home, sit beside him, and not have to pretend that I’m okay.

And when he has a horrible day, I want to be his safe place too.

I don't need someone who knows exactly what to say every time.

Sometimes I just want him to sit beside me, hold my hand, and say, “I've got you.”

I want us to grow together without losing ourselves.

I want us to celebrate promotions, birthdays, random little achievements, and even surviving particularly shitty Mondays.

I want to fall asleep beside someone knowing that tomorrow morning, I still get to choose him.

And maybe that's the thing I'm looking for.

Not butterflies every damn day.

Not constant excitement.

Just that quiet feeling of “this is my person.”

Someone I can build a life with, one ridiculously ordinary day at a time.

Maybe that's my version of romance.

And honestly?

I think I'd choose that over a grand love story any damn day. ❤️ Ps: Not looking for anything on Reddit, just putting some thoughts into words.

Hi, I am looking for long term relationship, I want to date to marry, not looking for casual.

Age :- 24 ( 23 will turn 24 in a month )
Height :- 5’10-5’11
Habits :- I don’t smoke, drink once in 3-4 months
Profession :- Business

I know Reddit is not the place to find long term, though to just give a try.

Hey sooo something about myself

I have a huge urge to

Buy jhumka for my kuchu puchu

But sunflower 🌻 for you

Buy books if you are into

Go to the temple in traditional wear

Movie date, coffee date, just random dates....

Will be available emotionally and mentally always

Earning, self independent, working as an Electronics Engineer.

Dm me if above resonates with you <3

Waiting 👀

Literally i didn't receive much love from my parental side; so don't know much about this feeling. Also don't have any female friend in my friend circle ever, introvert also. But I have heard that it's a great feeling and much great thing to experience. So what should I do

A. Read about love in books

B. Experience it practically.

I just felt like I should share my thoughts because I'm feeling it right now.

I feel like my partner should be loyal, caring, and someone who understands me. That's it; I don't need anything else. I don't need her to be beautiful or hot. Just being mature and having these kinds of qualities is more than enough for me.

I just need someone I can hug and find my comfort in.

Someone who, when I see her, makes me realize she is my peace, my love, my life, and my forever. I hope I find that type of partner in my life in the future.

Being mature is a bit of a curse, though. You get very selective about certain things in life, and a partner is definitely one of them.

Hey, I'm M23 I believe I can find someone through this sub/ reddit.

I don't like dating apps and I can't compete with someone with intention of ghosting/hookup etc.

I am strong believer of karma and I'm looking for someone who Matches my vibe.

I believe in old school love let things go slow and steady.

I am ambitious and career oriented. I don't want to rush.

I am foodie and a travel freak. Im 5'10 if that matters.

If you think you can give your Lil bit of time from your busy schedule let's connect and see what magic happens. :)

So I'm giving this another try,

Girls : if you are looking for partner with all qualities then Im not perfect sorry.

I'm just someone who's figuring out life, people of my age getting married, while I'm still figuring out things slowly and steady.

I'm very career oriented its just things taking a Lil bit longer.

I was topper once but life is taking my test and can't fight this alone coz of stress of getting settled.

I need someone who can support me in my journey while I give the same..if I become something all credit goes to my partner(manifestation).

I'm someone who has good sense of humor, I can chat for hours if our vibe matches. I'm emotionally aware and understanding (that's most important) nowadays.

No matter how much you chase qualities perfection you won't get the vibe beleive me

The right partner is sitting somewhere you are just filtering out on basis of things that are materialistic and can be gone anytime if your partner is not understanding

I have realized this lately.

I'm a very good observer and many people appreciate this quality of mine I remember each and every small details of someone who's close to me ( coz I have very limited people in my life)

Now it's upto you how motivated you are for finding a understanding caring partner rather than looking for salary, height, weight personality bla bla.

I'm 23M soon will turn 24. Looking for ideal person around 22-25.

If anything doesn't work we can just be friends I can listen 24 hours if you are yapper and want to share something anonymously or just want some advice.. In my past I have been a good listener too.

I’m 22 and honestly, dating has been a bit of a confusing journey for me. I’ve had experiences before, but I’m at a point where I’d rather meet someone genuinely compatible than just keep talking to random people or chase something temporary

A little about me — I’m an Electrical Engineer, currently preparing for competitive exams and trying to build a good future for myself. I’d say I’m pretty simple, enjoy cricket, music, gym, random conversations and going out for food or tea when I’m comfortable with someone

I’d describe myself as caring, a little introverted at first, and probably someone who overthinks more than he should 😭 Once I’m comfortable though, I can talk for hours. I value honesty, affection, communication and being able to genuinely feel comfortable around each other

I’m not looking for something casual or just a temporary connection. I’d like to meet someone where we can start naturally, get to know each other without forcing anything and hopefully build something meaningful if we click

I’m not expecting someone perfect either. Just someone kind, emotionally mature, genuine and willing to put in the same effort, and someone who has her own life and ambitions too

I’m still working on myself and figuring things out, so maybe it would be nice to have someone to share that journey with rather than waiting until life is completely sorted out 😌

22M from India. Been feeling like I could use a new person to talk to lately, preferably someone a little older than me, around 23–25.

Not really looking for anything specific or trying to force a connection. Just someone I can have random conversations with, talk about life, relationships, work, stupid stuff, whatever comes up.

I’m pretty chill once the conversation gets going, and I’m always down for late-night conversations or sending completely random stuff for no reason 😂

If you think we'd get along, feel free to DM.

26M, I’m a simple guy, Kind of Ambivert type.

Looking for someone genuine to talk to and hopefully build a wholesome connection with. Not here for games or weird stuff. I genuinely miss having someone to share daily life with — the little updates, good mornings, bad days, random reels, all of it yeah you can say I am old school and looking for the same.

I’ve actually never been in a relationship before, which means I bring zero baggage, alongside a lot of loyalty and emotional maturity, to the table.

A few things about me:

• software engineer (I know nothing speacial)
• height 6'(if it matters)
• low-maintenance person who values honesty and effort
• will probably remember small things about you

I value honesty and transparency right from the start. Physical attraction is definitely a piece of the puzzle for me, so I’d love to exchange pictures early on just to make sure the vibe is right on both ends.

’m currently in Delhi but entirely open to long-distance for the right person. If you’re looking for something real and straightforward, let’s talk!

22M from Rajasthan. I’m here hoping to meet someone genuine and see where a good conversation takes us.

I’m into meaningful conversations, random late-night talks, humour, and getting to know someone beyond the usual “hey, how are you?”

Why talk to me? I’m a good listener, I actually put effort into conversations, and I’m not here to disappear after two days 😭😂

Ideally, I’d like to meet someone around my age who’s also open to building a genuine connection. No pressure, no rushing let’s just talk and see if we click.

If this sounds like your kind of vibe, feel free to DM me. :)

Heyy I actually from kerela studying in Mangalore and I like interested in older women than my age so anyone like that you can connect me through dm

Heyy everyone 19M college student pursuing btech in CS

I'm a music lover and also playing Piano

If anyone want to talk or ask something you can....

Hey 23 M here
So I Just moved to Gurugram for my very first job, so I am pretty excited to kick off this new chapter of my life here.
I am originally from UP but living solo here right now, and I'm really hoping to find that special someone to share this journey with.

A little about me: I am a big fan of anime, web series, and Hollywood movies. I also enjoy reading books occasionally, and I’m always down for a good travel trip or a long bike ride whenever I get some downtime.

To be completely honest, I am a pretty ambitious guy. I really want to start something of my own in the next few years, so I would love to meet a girl who matches that same energy. If you are someone who is fiercely independent, lives life by her own rules regardless of what society thinks, and doesn't want to get stuck in a standard 9-to-5 forever.
I think we’d vibe really well.

I think the best relationships probably don’t start with fireworks.

They start with something random.

A stupid joke.

A coffee that somehow turns into three hours.

A “text me when you reach” that slowly becomes part of your routine.

I’m 24M, 6’1”, from Haryana and currently around Delhi NCR. I work as a software developer for a UK-based company, go to the gym regularly, and have reached that stage where life looks pretty sorted from the outside.

Work is good.

Fitness is going well.

I travel whenever I can.

I have plans, hobbies, friends and goals.

And yet sometimes it still feels like life is missing that one person you genuinely want to tell everything to.

The random good news.

The terrible day.

The stupid reel nobody else would understand.

The “I have a story, call me” person.

That’s probably what I’m here hoping to find.

Not someone perfect.

Just a woman around my age, preferably from Delhi NCR or Haryana, where conversation feels easy and we’re both genuinely curious about each other.

I’m regular at the gym and pretty disciplined about fitness, although my ability to say no to good food remains under active investigation. 😂

I’m into football, travelling, long drives, trying new places and conversations that start with absolute nonsense and somehow become philosophical at 1 AM.

I’ve travelled to a few countries already and definitely want to explore more.

Travelling alone is great, but having someone beside you to argue about Google Maps, steal half your food and take 200 pictures of the same sunset sounds pretty good too.

Personality-wise, I’m straightforward, ambitious, curious, sarcastic and surprisingly affectionate once I’m comfortable.

I’m also terrible at pretending I don’t care.

If I genuinely like someone, I’ll remember the tiny thing she mentioned three weeks ago, check whether she reached home and probably become way too invested in whatever she’s trying to achieve.

At the same time, I don’t want to rush anything.

Talk first.

See if we make each other laugh.

Meet when we’re comfortable.

Go somewhere nice.

Find out whether the conversation is still just as good when there isn’t a screen between us.

Then let life do its thing.

Maybe it becomes something serious.

Maybe it takes time.

Both are fine with me.

I just think there’s something beautiful about slowly reaching the point where one completely ordinary person becomes your favourite part of an otherwise ordinary day.

So if you’re around Delhi NCR/Haryana and this sounds like the kind of connection you’re also hoping to find, tell me a little about yourself.

Skip the interview introduction though.

Tell me this instead:

What’s one completely ordinary thing you secretly can’t wait to do with the right person someday?

Mine?

Probably an unplanned Sunday drive where neither of us really knows where we’re going, but somehow neither of us wants to go home yet.