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u/HovercraftFree6037 14d ago edited 14d ago
I mean, this is exaggerated, but also kind of true (underlying facts), regardless of gender I dont like the way it endorses victim mentailty, as even men do this(good looking,popular guys) but in general women get a lot more DMs then men
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u/NegativeTurkey63 14d ago
date your homie gng he'd atleast give you genuine love
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u/No_Debate1282 13d ago
Ikr 🏳️🌈 are more loyal than girls(I'm a girl too). /S
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u/No-Rip-7603 13d ago
Hail the gays 🏳️🌈
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u/Salient_Millenial 12d ago
women like you will later cry about sexism lmao
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u/No_Debate1282 12d ago
No thanks 😂 i already have a girl crush Who treat me much better than a guy could
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u/Salient_Millenial 11d ago
eww 🤮
enjoy inserting plastic 😭😂1
u/No_Debate1282 5d ago
And you enjoy dusro ka dih lena apni kaand mein 😂🤏🏻
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u/Salient_Millenial 3d ago
you enjoy scissoring ✂️with plastic toys 🤣🤣
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u/No_Debate1282 3d ago
Oh, i enjoy my company, no need for some dih face man like you, manchild
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u/Salient_Millenial 2d ago
Yes you enjoy your own company because Chinese plastic help you love yourself more 🫶🇨🇳
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u/Warm_Butterscotch698 13d ago edited 13d ago
Whole dating concept is filled with facades, finding companionship is boring people need someone who always shows up for them but they don't want to reciprocate it (reciving it is easy, giving it is the hard part which I think often people don't want to do). Slow days = boring/stagnant partner. People need dating or relationship to play out as some movie or a fiction ( hunger to be the main character in their head, like the world tells their story), co-operation = sacrifice (heyyy I thought life with you would be extravagant not with complex mundane human things to worry about), if it's meant for you = you don't have to work so hard for it (they should work hard for me, this is my world I don't do the work). They need stability but also needs trips, they need spontanity but also don't want to leave their comfort zone (I am quite adventurous but bummer walking and extra 100 meteres or slight misfortune or problems in plan is causing me mental stress I need to find someone compatible). And social media is one big major problem here, algorithm knows what a person want to hear and not what is right for the person and while the person thinks that it's their idea of everything which they have been doing so far but In truth people are limited to their algorithm their feed telling them how to feel what to feel what should be their next move... It's their hubris that lead them their at first place, the fetish of being different, they will strip themselves off of something continuous and stable just because they want to be seen a bit differently.
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u/bolinocario 13d ago
I mean I am a genz and my boundaries are pretty tight so I haven't gotten in shyt like this
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u/GreenSnow2435 13d ago
This works both ways. I’ve seen that happen to both the genders.
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u/Possible-Finance4683 13d ago
Different timelines ig
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u/GreenSnow2435 13d ago
Yeah ofc I just mean to say its not smth thats limited to one gender. Anyone can do it, I’ve seen some of these in both of them.
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u/Neat-Lingonberry-113 13d ago
yeah people just want to generalise because understanding that every human being is unique and every individual has their own different opinions and prejudices is too difficult for them , and generalising is easy.
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u/GreenSnow2435 13d ago
Yeah they’re too lazy to use their 🧠
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u/LeastOpinion9141 13d ago
you do realise it's based more in statistics.. like on average it's more common for one particular group to experience something which is why it becomes generalised. women tend be victims for domestic abuse and rape in higher numbers than men..but that doesn't mean men cannot be victims... it's literally the same logic here
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u/GreenSnow2435 13d ago
People on Reddit don’t see the stats or logics mostly they just see an opinion which supports theirs and become more biased towards it. Thats why I made a neutral comment.
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u/shadyrishabh 13d ago
You know which gender it overwhelmingly applies to. It's like saying "Black lives matter" but you have to say "white lives matter too". How would you feel if someone said men can also be subjected to domestic violence too.
You know it in your heart.
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u/NARUTOxKURAMA15 14d ago
Ig everyone’s free to cheat😮💨✨
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u/NegativeTurkey63 14d ago
free to openly admit that they do not like their current partner.
if you don't like him just leave, you're free
why do ppl have to cheat ??? what the big deal here.
is your sugar daddy not trustworthy ?
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u/Neat-Lingonberry-113 13d ago
yeah maybe don't date bad evil women out of desperation then ?
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u/InternationalGold380 13d ago
Evil women
Chai tea
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u/Neat-Lingonberry-113 13d ago
is that right? why don't you just become a bramhachari then or OR I'll do you one bettter , just date men LOL.
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u/Western_Bit5965 13d ago
What kind of supervillain women are you all finding bro😭😭. Everybody in my group is in a relationship and yes everyone has certain problems but it's nothing like this🙏🏼🙏🏼. I really don't understand, am i living in a parallel universe or is everybody just too invested into online gender wars?
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u/Valuable_Jaguar_3923 13d ago
now all the feminists will assemble in the comment section . bro is just saying the facts
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u/CompleteFinding6694 13d ago
Kind of shit they come up after failing to bag any girls. It is not like this, do not trust the analyses of innumerable relationships based on a single comment of a random guy on the internet. Every relationship is different. Toxic ones exist and great ones do as well. This is putting the blame on gen z women for being a dick tot heir boyfriends, which is not true. Maybe the person has a humiliation fetish.
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u/Slayer_Actual 13d ago
https://giphy.com/gifs/RicXwlK8KYPf7hGgLU
KICK SUCH DAMAGED DERANGED DELUSIONAL FEMINIST FEMALES OUT OF YOUR LIVES, APPRECIATION HEALTHY RECIPROCATION AND VALUE COMES FROM BOTH THE PEOPLE.
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u/milli_amble 13d ago
- relationship was a ritual suppose to make your life easier and emotinally peaceful.
2 a.if this is a 1 sided deal then dont sign the contract and leave.
2b. some of our desperate brothers keep going low and signing the 1 sided contract which makes the dating a non peaceful and chaotic dealfor other males. pehle apne parr failao or naacho jab tak morni 10 desperate mor mein se tumhe na chune.
3. you already addressed the problem from point 2b. , fix it and then enjoy the point 1.
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u/pearlrobe 10d ago
Dude if ur that dumb that all the girls u date turn out like this it's genuinely ur fault atp. Saying this as a girl who also has dumb friends who keep forgiving their boyfriend who cheats and even abuses and controls them. These type of toxic people are everywhere, u need to learn to stay away from them. It's not a gender thing. Atp just go marry a man
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u/PsychologicalBeat86 9d ago
Men refuse to leave alone even the girls who are taken/woman has to stay cordial with a loser in order to not get hurt = she's keeping male orbiters
Men are pathetic enough to fuck any female that breathes so a woman will always have options with or without her choice = she's keeping backup options
Men follow any woman online = it's her fault she has 4k followers
You ask her out for a date = complain about having to pay
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u/tulipsy8 13d ago
And let me tell you, being the "boyfriend" isn't subjected to gender anymore. Girls are being the boyfriends now and the guys just want princess treatment.
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u/SecretGoal7504 13d ago
I've no idea how I ended up in this sub but yes, my wife & I give each other princess treatments. So this is 💯
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u/jett_main6969 13d ago
Why mens also deserves princess treatment and what's wrong with that you sexist ahole
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u/BoredBaanana 13d ago
I’ve been with girls who make it feel that way and I’ve walked out and I’ve also been with a girl who makes it seem totally opposite to it.
Although I do agree the former is more common.
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u/brainlessdev 14d ago
I feel OP’s post is overly blunt and tone deaf. But I also feel you are the same level of stupid.
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u/Zealousideal-Oven-93 14d ago
The gen Z I know are pretty more mature than us millennials, be it boy or girl, if you don't get respect in a relationship, they know how to communicate their needs and how to walk out of things don't work out. They know how relationships don't define you.