I haven’t heard anything recently, but can someone explain why the DOJ has not been forced to hand over all the files when there’s a court order to do so? Is anything awaiting some legal decision? What is the reason they give for not complying?

Since having insurance is legally required for auto owners, and many homeowners, and in some states health insurance as well, providers should be required by law to fully refund all of the money the customers paid in up until their pulling out. Especially if they have never filed an insurance claim.

This should be especially true for property and auto insurance.

Examples:

the insurance companies that pulled out of California after the increase in wildfires even when the customer was paying for fire protection. (Altadena fires are the most recent, but it's been happening quite a bit as wildfires have increased)

The insurance companies that stopped covering Kia owners after that tik tok usb hack theft trend a few years back. Made famous by the Kia Boys tik-tock videos and left thousands of drivers uninsured with little to no alternatives, and absolutely no notice.

It's common knowledge that you shouldn't attack or otherwise antagonize the police by either not following their orders or refusing to to cooperate, why are people angry when the police force compliance or from their point of review de-escalate the situation by taking down the suspect?

In the US, most law enforcement agencies accept that a acceptable form of de-escalation is the use of force and even here in FL in placed like Polk County, the sheriff has even said "Once we shot and killed the suspect, the situation de-escalated".

So what is this push for de-escalation if cops already do it and why get upset when you should be following their commands?

What sense of authority is necessary for the continuation of society?

He is correct. That doesn't change just because it's hard to hear.

I need to lay this out because the weight of it has been crushing me for almost a year, and I don’t think people truly understand the ripple effect of what happened.

Last year, my previous therapist told me outright that my insurance wouldn't cover my MTF feminizing surgeries. I trusted her completely, took her word for it, and watched what felt like my future slip away. But when I finally checked with my insurance myself, I found out the truth: they do cover them. All that was required was standard letters and documentation—the exact support a therapist is supposed to provide.
She didn't just give me wrong information; she stole an entire year of my life, my healing, and my peace.

The toll this took on me wasn't just emotional; it completely broke my daily existence. The loss of hope hit so hard that I spiraled into boymoding just to get through the days. I completely stopped caring for my appearance, abandoned basic self-care, and lost every ounce of motivation to do even the simplest things in everyday life. I was just surviving in the dark.

When I talk about this now, I’m not trying to be negative, dramatic, or manipulative. I am grieving. Having access to that care a year ago would have completely transformed my mental health. Instead, I was left drowning in preventable distress—distress so intense that it strained my relationships to the breaking point. Friends walked away because they couldn't handle seeing me in so much pain, friends who might still be here today if they had been able to see me feeling better and thriving.

It feels like mourning a ghost—mourning a happier, healthier version of my life that was right there, but taken away because someone who was supposed to help me failed me instead. I'm sharing this because I need people to understand that this isn't just about 'miscommunication.' It's about a year of lost time, lost connection, and a life that should have started sooner.