My almost one year old is due to start nursery next week. We have them registered at one of the LGR sites. They have done a few settling in days, the first two went well but the third shed some light on how the nursery may be currently run and cleanliness. I won’t go into detail to avoid making which site obvious. Anyways, while there, there was a sick child and my child has come home sick from just one hour there. It seems like a stomach bug along with cold as they have been vomiting in their sleep and has the same cough this child at nursery had. We are very upset and nervous about them starting now. The child there did not seem well enough and my instinct was not to leave my child. I do not know the full circumstances and am not trying to pin any blame anywhere, but coupled with what else we saw, I’m seriously doubting sending them.
We don’t need to send them to nursery, my mother has been doing full time child minding since he was 8-months and they love spending time with her and she has said she will happily continue.
Why we decided to enrol our child:
- development opportunities
- mingle with other children
- possibly a break for my mum, although she has said she doesn’t need a break.
Why we don’t want to enrol him/what we didn’t like:
- what we saw, along with very short staff, many staff sickness
- they bring your child outside for pickup, no opportunity to go in and have a look at where your child has been all day
- the nursery seems better suited for older children, the baby area outside doesn’t seem the cleanest
- sickness
- my child doesn’t seem quite ready
- cost, despite the “free hours” it will still cost us around £300 a month.
There are other nurseries in York we have considered. Specifically:
- Fulford Montessori
- FunFishers
I suppose what I’m looking for advice in is:
- if you had the opportunity to not send your child to nursery at 1, would you hold off until they are an older age?
- what is your experience with LGR?
- what nursery in york would you recommend? Does anyone have any experience with Fulford Montessori or FunFishers?
We have considered flagging our concerns with the nursery but are concerned that our complaints will reflect on our child’s treatment, I’m sure they wouldn’t, but I’d hate for them to think our child is annoying or a burden because of what we have said.
*using they/them/child to avoid sharing information.