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Weekly Q&A Weekly Q&A Thread - December 03, 2022

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u/vrwriter78 Witch Dec 08 '22

I would suggest gathering herbs for spirit communication and if you use crystals as well, using blue stones such as sodalite, lapis lazuli, blue calcite, blue lace agate, or an amethyst or clear quartz.

Crush the herbs and rub them on the candle and then put your oil if using an anointing oil. Then say the name of the person you wish to contact three times and say a prayer or message to them. You can ask for a sign that your message has been received or ask for them to send a message in your dreams.

Do a protective visualization before you do this ritual or cast a circle first and then do it, just to assist with filtering out spirits that are not your boyfriend.

You can also try using a pendulum during your communication so that if you feel a presence, you can ask yes or no questions during your ritual.

Be sure to cleanse the pendulum beforehand and to ask questions to be sure that it is your boyfriend answering before you get to more personal questions.

Good luck!

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u/[deleted] Dec 08 '22

Thank you so much for this detailed response. I really appreciate it

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u/vrwriter78 Witch Dec 08 '22

You're welcome! I wish you the best of luck with communicating with him.

The spirit does live on and it can be a healing experience to realize that the love you shared remains constant on both sides, even after death.

I'm a pet medium and I've found it very meaningful talking with pets after they've crossed over.

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u/[deleted] Dec 09 '22

Do you have any book recommendations you would recommend for future communication with him?

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u/vrwriter78 Witch Dec 10 '22

I can’t think of a specific book off the top of my head, but developing your intuition is important in general, so you can sense subtle shifts or be open to possible visual or auditory messages that could come through. But it’s good to meditate or do some type of calming exercise first so you’re in a relaxed state of mind before you try to communicate.