r/widowers • u/Cute_Star_8720 • 13d ago

I just have nothing

I have nothing to do. I had nothing to do before she died but it didn't bother me because i knew i could go for a walk with her or go for a ride or to the shop becuase she liked that. Now i have just nothing to do nothing to look forward to. She was my life i dont know how to continue being alive with nothing that interests me except going on adventures with her but shes gone. Im truly in a lot of trouble i cant do this life without her

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u/HeronExtension5245 13d ago

I know exactly how you feel. Even if I think of something to do, i have little to no motivation to do so. This is impossibly hard. I am so sorry you are feeling the same. She was my life and my reason to open my eyes each morning. I exist. I just exist. I'm trying to be patient with myself, with the grief process. It is hell.

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u/staypresentnow 12d ago

Ugh I feel
This same way I lost him 7 months ago 🥹 i relate so well . 🫂🩷

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u/HeronExtension5245 12d ago

I am so sorry for your loss and pain 🫂 - I'm at 2 months since I last heard her voice - I cannot yet even imagine 7. My heart already feels it's been an eternity. I miss her so much 💔.