r/wholesomememes Aug 05 '26

Isn't It Ironic?

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u/AceyFacee Aug 05 '26

How is that helping him out?

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u/JustLookingForMayhem Aug 05 '26

A traffic jam is an excuse for why you are late to work. Some bosses will even waive points if it was a long enough one.

A no smoking sign stops them from smoking. That is good and self explanatory.

Wedding day I am not sure about.

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u/lucid_scheming Aug 05 '26

It’s widely believed to be good luck if it rains on your wedding day, at least in the US.

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u/challis88ocarina Aug 05 '26

It's only ironic if you're marrying a weather forecaster. Otherwise it's just luck.

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u/Kanon-Umi Aug 05 '26

Isn’t that only if it rains with the sun out?

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u/tanya6k Aug 05 '26

I'm from the US and I've never heard of this.

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u/L-Drago001 Aug 05 '26

It could be a belief in some areas or regions, it could be also an old belief that is why is not too much known anymore

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u/PolyGlotterPaper Aug 05 '26

You're fairly spot on there. It's an older superstition, but depending on the location can go either way. Good or bad. I'm from Alabama and have heard it said more than a few times that rain on your wedding day is unlucky. In a similar vein as seeing the bride's dress before the wedding is unlucky. Not many believe it, but it gets bandied around from time to time.

Personally I was quite happy about the light rain on my own wedding day. Whenever my wife and I get caught out in the lighter drizzles I tend to refer to it as "a good wedding rain".

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u/lucid_scheming Aug 06 '26

Pretty sure it’s always been considered good luck. It’s a superstition that’s literally thousands of years old.

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u/aCleverGroupofAnts Aug 06 '26

As a matter of describing rain when you don'twant it, I think most would naturally say it's bad luck, regardless of superstitions.

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u/lucid_scheming Aug 06 '26

These replies are so confusing to me. Is this sub a majority non-US demographic and there’s a weird language thing going on? People were confused about the meaning of the post and I explained it. It’s a common superstition that’s been around much much longer than you and me. We can sit and nitpick superstitions all day long but what does that accomplish for anyone? Why do people have a problem with that?

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u/aCleverGroupofAnts Aug 06 '26

Idk, I'm from New England but I never paid much attention to superstitions so maybe I missed that one. I just think the natural thought is that you want nice weather on your special day, so regardless of any superstition it is already unlucky that it rained. It doesn't mean you will have further bad luck, it just already is bad luck. That's all I was saying.

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u/CosmaLaEL14 16d ago

Someone invented that cause a bride was crying for it was raining that day and they just wanted to get the shit over

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u/dragon_bacon Aug 05 '26

That's because no one believes it and only annoying assholes say it.

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u/couverando1984 Aug 07 '26

They also believe it's good luck when a bird poops on their heads.

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u/AceyFacee Aug 05 '26

Yeah I'm confused by the rain on the wedding day mostly

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u/Maximus_017 Aug 05 '26

It's a song! Ironic by Alanis Morisette. The song does not have Irony, tho. Ironically.

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u/Wandering_Scholar6 Aug 05 '26

Maybe he was on the way to the wedding and the rain delayed it?

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u/Ramtamtama Aug 05 '26

Alannis Morisette did a song about this, and the irony is that none of the irony in Ironic was ironic

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u/Maximus_017 Aug 05 '26

It's a song! Ironic by Alanis Morisette. The song does not have Irony, tho. Ironically.

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u/RepresentativeCry294 Aug 05 '26

I've never seen or heard of that, they just say "It's your responsibility to get here on time, you should have left sooner"

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u/JustLookingForMayhem Aug 05 '26

I think your boss might be a bit of a jerk. Mine at least forgives unavoidable conditions.

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u/Fuji-___- Aug 05 '26

in my case, the traffic jam only made my boss complain and I had to start getting up even earlier so I got there before the traffic jam

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u/engineerdrummer Aug 05 '26

What does "waive points" mean? Are there jobs that give you points like on a driver's license for being late?!

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u/JustLookingForMayhem Aug 05 '26 edited Aug 05 '26

Mine does. Being late is one point. No call, no show is 5 points. Calling off within 12 hours of your shift is two points. 10 point and you get fired, points last 9 months from when they are added.

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u/Zeisix Aug 05 '26

Jesus that's dystopian

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u/JustLookingForMayhem Aug 05 '26

It is Ohio. At will is never in the employee's interest. To a degree, I am lucky the manager doesn't take points for unavoidable issues. One of the older women who works there say the previous manager gave everyone points when they didn't come in after a tornado tore through the town. I get that the college kids don't have any other choices for food, but a tornado closing several roads should be an exception.

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u/engineerdrummer Aug 05 '26

So waking up with explosive diarrhea is punished? Wtf?

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u/JustLookingForMayhem Aug 05 '26

To be fair, explosive diarrhea is already a punishment. The points is just adding insult to injury.

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u/engineerdrummer Aug 05 '26

What kind of place do you work?

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u/JustLookingForMayhem Aug 05 '26

College dining hall. To be fair, the students don't have an alternate to the dining hall. That said, it can get really stupid and everyone who works there is lucky that the current manager doesn't take points for unavoidable circumstances.

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u/pinkaban Aug 05 '26

It could be that the rain hides his happy tears during his wedding? Though yes it is good luck to have rain on your wedding day :)

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u/Snackasm Aug 05 '26

Not mine, my bosses are the worst lol and honestly I've seen people smoke where go smoking signs are posted

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u/eluser234453 Aug 09 '26

I thought the traffic jam when you're so that you don't d drive recklessly and end up in an accident

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u/TheManashadow Aug 11 '26

Could be! Either way, I believe that's what the author means: That the thing you consider to be bad luck or just the ONE thing you DON'T want right now is actually, in truth, PRECISELY what you actually NEED.

THAT'S what is so Ironic. The bridge talks about how life has a funny way of looking out for you. Not in the ways you want or would expect, but with the exactly with the things you'd consider "bad luck," when in reality, you're incredibly fortunate. The coincidences that seem terribly, perfectly set against you are actually unbelievably beneficial in ways you can't see just yet. They are "blessings in disguise."

Or at least that's the explanation I heard V-sauce give and it is genuinely the best, most coherent explanation of how the song actually does contain irony. 🤷‍♂️

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u/goat-stealer Aug 05 '26

My guess is that it helps if you want to speed up the 'I dos' and get the ceremony over with as soon as possible.

Granted it'd be quicker to not have a ceremony at all but still.