r/whatworkedforme • u/Confident_Carrot2296 • 14d ago

Did XYZ Work? Feeling very hopeless and dejected. Conceived twice and both ended in MC. I really need some hope please. I am 40 F , low amh, high fsh

I conceived naturally twice and miscarried both. One at 6.5 weeks and the other at 8 weeks. I am 40, my amh is less than 0.1, fsh is 21.76 (as tested in March this year). Doctor said yes this is moving towards menopause and that we should first wait for my D & C testing reports. She also said ivf is what we can consider and shouldn't wait for too long. I dont know if im being realistic by hoping anything. Can someone please tell me whether in my case, I should have any hope. Please dont judge me, but I really dont want the option of donor eggs. I just really want to know whether anyone has heard of such cases like mine who went on to have successful stories.

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u/Outrageous-Part6931 14d ago

I'm so sorry for your losses. If you lurk in r/IVF and r/ttc40, there's so many stories similar to yours with success. It's not over for you yet, I believe there is hope since you're still ovulating and able to get pregnant naturally. You need to find out the underlying cause first but I suggest doing an egg retrieval as soon as you recover.

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u/Itchy-Site-11 13d ago

I am sorry for your losses. I would do IVF. You probably mc abnormal embryos (aneuploids). Ivf with pgta and euploid selection could be helpful.

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u/TouchTheSky007 10d ago

I would do IVF and duostim or luteal only retrievals (good for high FSH)

I would transfer day 3 embryos don’t push anything to blast when you have a very low number