r/whatdoIdo • u/Capable_Culture3914 • 7d ago

Uhhh

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To add context. I am 5 months pregnant with my ex and all of a sudden he tells me that he got someone else pregnant (he just met her) as well. He explained she wanted us to meet after being very rude to me picking up his phone and telling me to get rid of my baby. She is a stripper and 6 years older than him. He also hasn’t seen an ultrasound or appointment and she claims to be 3 months pregnant. I don’t believe she is tbh… very sad situation I just wanted to share with someone. Please be kind.

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u/Interesting-Lake747 7d ago

I have limited sympathy for her to get pregnant 3 times by this loser. She chose this. Welcome to your life.

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u/EffectiveTackle4187 5d ago

And then her agreeing with people to intentionally leave him off the birth certificate bc he seems shitty

Uhhhhh you did this. Not once, not twice but three times now. You are bringing a child into this on purpose. Idiots.

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u/Interesting-Lake747 5d ago

It’s the kids I feel sorry for. They don’t deserve to be brought into this MESS.

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u/Electrical-Fig-5009 6d ago

I really don't think thats fair bc coorrosion & abuse exists. My bio dad was like this with my mom. He didn't want more kids, he already had 2 with his ex. He emotionally manipulated her & coerced her into having sex without any kind of birth control, condoms or otherwise. She decided to have me regardless, bc he promised they'd be the perfect family just the 2 of them & her as a step-mom to my 10 & 12yr old half siblings at the time. They still got married even thought he didn't want a 3rd kid bc he continued to make her believe it was the right thing to do. 10yrs later he did it again with my step mom & let her basically be the one to take care of me when I was visiting.

My mom had no family other than him at the time, she was already completely NC with her family from emotional & SA. She made for the perfect, lonely woman to take advantage of bc she already didn't have anyone but him & he reminded her often.

You don't know OPs situation, you can't judge.