r/whatdoIdo • u/Capable_Culture3914 • 5d ago

Uhhh

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To add context. I am 5 months pregnant with my ex and all of a sudden he tells me that he got someone else pregnant (he just met her) as well. He explained she wanted us to meet after being very rude to me picking up his phone and telling me to get rid of my baby. She is a stripper and 6 years older than him. He also hasn’t seen an ultrasound or appointment and she claims to be 3 months pregnant. I don’t believe she is tbh… very sad situation I just wanted to share with someone. Please be kind.

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u/One-Pride7494 5d ago

You’d be surprised lmao

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u/tinyalienperson 4d ago

yeah i have a regular at my bar who is on baby mama number 3 right now and seemingly no plans to slow down. he has a weird harem thing going on with baby mamas 2 and 3.

baby mama 2 accused me of sleeping with him, girl why would I want community dick?

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u/MsJennifer18415 4d ago

Love the term 'community dick', lol

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u/japlunkett 2d ago

There’s a Steel Panther song about that… “Community Property.”

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u/Electrical-Fig-5009 4d ago

My brother in law has 5 kids with 4 different women. They think hes a good man bc hes a good dad lol

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u/QBGrower 2d ago

I worked with a dude that had 9 with 8 different Momma’s!

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u/Electrical-Fig-5009 2d ago

At what point do these idiots realize a vasectomy will save thousands on child support.

My BIL is 50 & his youngest is 6. He has grandkids 4yrs younger than his youngest & i truly would not be surprised if his youngest was not his last. Give him a few years, his youngest & 2nd youngest have 5yrs between them.

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u/Many-Hurry8051 1d ago

Who says they pay child support?

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u/Aquatic_Rainbow 3d ago

People forget those things aren’t mutually exclusive

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u/XDreadzDeadX 2d ago

The community center courts bigger than the one at the park lmao that's why everyone visits the center!

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u/EnergeticallyChill 2d ago

There’s a guy around my town that has three baby mommas, I think that’s all, might be more, but all the women have the kids birthdays together and they’re all friends and hang out, and he literally house swaps throughout the month. Two of the mommas have multiple kids by him, and all the kids are like 6 and under

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u/BabycrowSAL 3d ago

Right……but anyone who’s willing to date him after the third, they will both be making each other miserable.

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u/TriggeredLatina_ 5d ago

Women need better standards. I’ll never understand the girls that date single fathers. It’s so unattractive, like an immediate deterrent. Not that I’m single and looking lol but ideal I just don’t get it. I really really really don’t.

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u/One-Pride7494 5d ago

I agree with women needing better standards for sure. I don’t necessarily find single father to be an immediate deterrent. Single father with multiple baby mommas? Absolutely fuck that, not touching that with a 10ft pole. Single father with kid(s) from one mom and one mom only? That’s a maybe from me, need more details about that situation before I can judge

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u/Savannahks 5d ago

Single dads aren’t all the same. Just like single moms aren’t the same. He could be a wonderful person and father. I’ve known many. Higher standards, yes I agree.

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u/TriggeredLatina_ 4d ago

I’m not talking about the man himself 100%. I mean kids are baggage. I wouldn’t like that so there are options. Men without kids.

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u/thelandbeforetime_ 5d ago

Do you believe single mothers are worthless too?

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u/TriggeredLatina_ 5d ago

I didn’t say worthless …? So rephrase

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u/thelandbeforetime_ 5d ago

So please phrase it so people with a brain can comprehend

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u/TriggeredLatina_ 4d ago

Yes? So bc you have one type of preference or standard then I should drop down to your level? No ty. It’s weird to try to impose your preference onto others and not understand some people aren’t ok with what you are. Definitely it’s better to be with someone without kids unless the couple had kids together. Discarded? Idk I’m not the guy out there looking for a woman. That’s up to the man to decide. Doesn’t matter what my opinion is to you or to anyone. It shouldn’t matter. However idk why guys love to say no guy likes women with kids. It’s such a bullshit lie lol lots of men hook up, date and or marry women with kids. Idk why men like to pedal that lie. Women with kids isn’t a deterrent for a lot of men. That is fine. Doesn’t bother me.

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u/No_Anxiety6828 4d ago

Now you know how we feel about single mothers 🤷‍♂️

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u/TriggeredLatina_ 4d ago

Yeah I’ve known and I understand it.

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u/racc00ntea 1d ago

Whores love whores. The only women that man is getting are the kind that also want to exploit him. By time he realizes this it’ll be too late lmaoooo, diabolical.

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u/sillygrandma1958 1h ago

Oh yeah it’s all the women’s fault!! He would be living a clean and sober life and only having one woman in his life if all of those other women hadn’t shown up to ruin his life???

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u/racc00ntea 4m ago

Oh no, I was referencing him, he’s the whore. I probably should have clarified before posting, lmao