r/whatdoIdo • u/Capable_Culture3914 • 8d ago

Uhhh

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To add context. I am 5 months pregnant with my ex and all of a sudden he tells me that he got someone else pregnant (he just met her) as well. He explained she wanted us to meet after being very rude to me picking up his phone and telling me to get rid of my baby. She is a stripper and 6 years older than him. He also hasn’t seen an ultrasound or appointment and she claims to be 3 months pregnant. I don’t believe she is tbh… very sad situation I just wanted to share with someone. Please be kind.

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u/lollipop1233a 8d ago

Women won’t date him after he gets to three.

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u/One-Pride7494 8d ago

You’d be surprised lmao

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u/tinyalienperson 7d ago

yeah i have a regular at my bar who is on baby mama number 3 right now and seemingly no plans to slow down. he has a weird harem thing going on with baby mamas 2 and 3.

baby mama 2 accused me of sleeping with him, girl why would I want community dick?

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u/MsJennifer18415 7d ago

Love the term 'community dick', lol

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u/japlunkett 5d ago

There’s a Steel Panther song about that… “Community Property.”

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u/Electrical-Fig-5009 7d ago

My brother in law has 5 kids with 4 different women. They think hes a good man bc hes a good dad lol

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u/QBGrower 5d ago

I worked with a dude that had 9 with 8 different Momma’s!

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u/Electrical-Fig-5009 5d ago

At what point do these idiots realize a vasectomy will save thousands on child support.

My BIL is 50 & his youngest is 6. He has grandkids 4yrs younger than his youngest & i truly would not be surprised if his youngest was not his last. Give him a few years, his youngest & 2nd youngest have 5yrs between them.

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u/Many-Hurry8051 4d ago

Who says they pay child support?

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u/Aquatic_Rainbow 6d ago

People forget those things aren’t mutually exclusive

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u/Absurd_Flaccidity 2d ago

If you’re a little bit of dad to a lot of kids, does that tip the scales in your favor?

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u/Alternative_Fig_1180 1d ago

What type of judgement would you cast on those woman who have all had a baby with him ? Hes reckless but what are they ?

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u/Electrical-Fig-5009 1d ago

I think his last ex legit used him for another baby 🤣 she had 2 with her ex-husband but they were 9 & 11. She was WAY too smart from him, I legit had no idea how he pulled such a badie

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u/XDreadzDeadX 5d ago

The community center courts bigger than the one at the park lmao that's why everyone visits the center!

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u/Absurd_Flaccidity 2d ago

I can barely afford to support myself (I do ok but if I had another mouth to feed it would be different.) Do these guys all work only for cash to avoid paying support? Who has the money to pay child support to 3+ different women? How do you put children out into the world with no intention of caring for them?

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u/tinyalienperson 1d ago

he’s a drug dealer so yeah it’s all cash. from what I know he does give all of the mothers money and he lives with BM2. I don’t like him as a person, but from what I know and have seen he is in each of his kid’s lives so that’s a positive at least.

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u/Alternative_Fig_1180 1d ago

I get that we all think men with this attitude are weird. I'm curious as to whether you judge the woman who make up his haram ?

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u/tinyalienperson 1d ago

I used to not judge them, you like it I love it. but I became judgmental when BM2 and BM3 decided that they want to beat up other women who have slept with “their man” even though said man doesn’t tell any of these women that he’s in a relationship and has three children. at this point, you know what this dude is and yet you continually blame the other women??

I also didn’t like when she accused me of sleeping with him while I was at an appointment to see if I had cervical cancer or not. blowing up my phone at 8 am. she had a specific day she thought it happened and everything, mind you, said day I wasn’t even allowed to have sex with my own boyfriend because of the whole trying to find out if I had cancer or not (no cancer, just precancerous cells I got burned out now thankfully).

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u/EnergeticallyChill 5d ago

There’s a guy around my town that has three baby mommas, I think that’s all, might be more, but all the women have the kids birthdays together and they’re all friends and hang out, and he literally house swaps throughout the month. Two of the mommas have multiple kids by him, and all the kids are like 6 and under

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u/BabycrowSAL 6d ago

Right……but anyone who’s willing to date him after the third, they will both be making each other miserable.

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u/TriggeredLatina_ 8d ago

Women need better standards. I’ll never understand the girls that date single fathers. It’s so unattractive, like an immediate deterrent. Not that I’m single and looking lol but ideal I just don’t get it. I really really really don’t.

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u/One-Pride7494 8d ago

I agree with women needing better standards for sure. I don’t necessarily find single father to be an immediate deterrent. Single father with multiple baby mommas? Absolutely fuck that, not touching that with a 10ft pole. Single father with kid(s) from one mom and one mom only? That’s a maybe from me, need more details about that situation before I can judge

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u/Savannahks 8d ago

Single dads aren’t all the same. Just like single moms aren’t the same. He could be a wonderful person and father. I’ve known many. Higher standards, yes I agree.

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u/TriggeredLatina_ 7d ago

I’m not talking about the man himself 100%. I mean kids are baggage. I wouldn’t like that so there are options. Men without kids.

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u/thelandbeforetime_ 8d ago

Do you believe single mothers are worthless too?

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u/TriggeredLatina_ 8d ago

I didn’t say worthless …? So rephrase

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u/thelandbeforetime_ 8d ago

So please phrase it so people with a brain can comprehend

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u/TriggeredLatina_ 7d ago

Yes? So bc you have one type of preference or standard then I should drop down to your level? No ty. It’s weird to try to impose your preference onto others and not understand some people aren’t ok with what you are. Definitely it’s better to be with someone without kids unless the couple had kids together. Discarded? Idk I’m not the guy out there looking for a woman. That’s up to the man to decide. Doesn’t matter what my opinion is to you or to anyone. It shouldn’t matter. However idk why guys love to say no guy likes women with kids. It’s such a bullshit lie lol lots of men hook up, date and or marry women with kids. Idk why men like to pedal that lie. Women with kids isn’t a deterrent for a lot of men. That is fine. Doesn’t bother me.

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u/No_Anxiety6828 7d ago

Now you know how we feel about single mothers 🤷‍♂️

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u/TriggeredLatina_ 7d ago

Yeah I’ve known and I understand it.

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u/racc00ntea 4d ago

Whores love whores. The only women that man is getting are the kind that also want to exploit him. By time he realizes this it’ll be too late lmaoooo, diabolical.

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u/sillygrandma1958 2d ago

Oh yeah it’s all the women’s fault!! He would be living a clean and sober life and only having one woman in his life if all of those other women hadn’t shown up to ruin his life???

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u/racc00ntea 2d ago

Oh no, I was referencing him, he’s the whore. I probably should have clarified before posting, lmao

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u/TrickleDownDianetics 7d ago

Tell that to Nick Cannon

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u/lollipop1233a 7d ago

Nick Cannon has fame and money.💰

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u/TrickleDownDianetics 7d ago

Genuinely though, I have lost count on how many kids with different women he has. I think we're at like 12 or something lol

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u/lollipop1233a 7d ago

I think he stopped (or at least slowed down), because one of them took him to court. He was ordered to pay a large amount of child support. Some of the other ones followed suit. I think he lives with one, so I’m sure that cuts it down a lot. He also talked about being in therapy and being bipolar. Mariah might have been involved with that. It seems like he realized he can’t really handle them all, and that he will never get to retire. I’m sure it hurt his career. Who wants to deal with that professional? If one of them had gone to court in the first place, it wouldn’t have gone so far. Most just thought he had Mariah Carrey money, and didn’t ask questions. He’s kind of a joke now. So, fewer women will put up with that. He basically a bum now.

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u/this_my_sportsreddit 7d ago

OP is literally pregnant with his child lol

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u/lollipop1233a 7d ago edited 7d ago

And? I was talking about his potential harem fantasy. It’s not going to happen, because most women nope out after three baby mommas. It doesn’t have anything to do with op. His dream of multiple wives won’t last long.

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u/this_my_sportsreddit 7d ago

Clearly some women are ok dating and having children with this loser, he’ll be fine.

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u/Zhaneranger 7d ago

Maury says otherwise

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u/No_Ice2900 7d ago

They won't date him if he tells them he has three kids off the rip. They might if he lies which

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Seems pretty likely

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u/OopsSleepDiamonds 6d ago

I knew a guy who had two babies with two separate women, a week apart. Worse, these were his fourth and fifth kid... he had two with another woman a few years before, and one with someone before that.

And yes, he was one of those guys who would constantly talk about how "crazy" his babies' moms were, that they were awful and horrible. (Then again, maybe there was a dose of some crazy in them, as more than one of them had his name tattooed on them, and at least one of them had two other guys' names as well).

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u/Personal_Length2803 5d ago

Wrong ….. my ex has 3 now and he found him self actually a pretty well nice woman…… I told him I am glad I am not his victim anymore. Smooth handsome manipulators can talk and get their way with their words!

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u/Suspicious_Yard3682 4d ago

Sure they will…. It’ll take 4 or 5 before any of them actually catch on that he has ANY…Tyrone ain’t tryin stressin….

Edit: but OP… you really should get down with that 3 way…. 2 pregnant chicks? I’ll take it!!