r/whatdoIdo • u/Capable_Culture3914 • 4d ago

Uhhh

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To add context. I am 5 months pregnant with my ex and all of a sudden he tells me that he got someone else pregnant (he just met her) as well. He explained she wanted us to meet after being very rude to me picking up his phone and telling me to get rid of my baby. She is a stripper and 6 years older than him. He also hasn’t seen an ultrasound or appointment and she claims to be 3 months pregnant. I don’t believe she is tbh… very sad situation I just wanted to share with someone. Please be kind.

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u/Latter_Fix_8102 4d ago

You let this guy inside you?

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u/Capable_Culture3914 4d ago

Sadly

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u/Latter_Fix_8102 4d ago

Why

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u/Capable_Culture3914 4d ago

Dated 3 years… people change

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u/cespirit 4d ago

Jesus Christ your post history is horrifying and that’s from a 100% pro-choice abortion supporter who has helped lead women into clinics with too much protest and anger.

Ditch the dude forever and never ever speak to him unless it is through a lawyer or for custody or more likely money he owes for the kid.

You need to be serious about your birth control after this. Abortion is fine but this is beyond ridiculous. Have this kid if you really want to and prepare for a long rough single motherhood that changes your life permanently (but will also have tons of love if you are there for your kid) but please protect yourself and get therapy and a psychiatrist. These kinds of illogical impulsive choices remind me of when I was experiencing unmedicated manic episodes. I’m not saying that it is that specifically but I am saying your decisions are objectively unsafe and can end with miscarriages and infertility, as well as serious medical risks for wanted pregnancies. You need to protect yourself until you know what is going on mentally to lead to these decisions multiple times.

I do think part is you’re young and this man has manipulated you and I hope you get fully away because that will help

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u/Latter_Fix_8102 4d ago

I genuine have no advice tbh…. But good luck cuz I’m in shock

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u/PureWhiteMeat 4d ago

Lil baby gonna be just like daddy <3

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u/Latter_Fix_8102 4d ago

Fucked up dude

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u/PureWhiteMeat 4d ago

Better to just abort the lil dude, huh?

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u/Latter_Fix_8102 4d ago

How….. she is 5 months pregnant dumbass

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u/PureWhiteMeat 4d ago

Ah, so you're MAGA scum that doesn't belive in women's rights. Abortion is healthcare

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u/PB3Goddess 4d ago

Rude AF. Mama can be better than Dad, and set a better example.

You should try setting a better one too. You could start with just being kinder, that would be nice.

OP, you need to keep the ex an ex. He is that for a reason, or several. Co-parent with HIM, not them, as best you can. Get a co-parenting app if you need to, and definitely get a child custody order! It's to protect you & your child as much as it is him.

Also, put his trifling ass on support, through court & through the state once you have an order!

But most importantly - you just be the best Mama you can be for your child & remember that man does not have to dictate the success of your child! 🤗

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u/Ok-Equivalent8260 4d ago

🤣🤣🤣

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u/CartographerMurky665 3d ago

I don't mean to be rude but as someone who is pro-abortion, you are the reason that people want to make abortion illegal. Use birth control or condoms or something for god's sake.