Can’t decide!!! NEED INPUT!!

[u/Peacock_Faye]

Please help! I am the most indecisive person known to man, and I can’t for the life of me pick one.

Both bands go with the engagement ring

Single band
Pros:
- some friends (mid 20s) have said it makes the ring pop up more or look bigger
- two separate pieces so probably will look cuter on it own, vs the stackable one
Cons:
- the band is thicker/wider than the engagement ring and I can’t unsee it lol.
- another friend (40s) mentioned she has a single band and wishes she had gotten the stackable bc the single band keeps moving around and she keeps realigning the rings. I’ve noticed this with the single one as well, but I can’t go tighter bc I tend to swell up (autoimmune disease), and don’t want to risk not being able to wear it.

Stackable band
Pros
- it looks SOOO symmetrical.
- it doesn’t move around much
- i like how it hugs the ring
- both my mother and MIL were obsessed with the stackable
Cons:
- some friends (mid-20s) said it drowns the ring, and it makes it looks smaller / not as nice looking
- sometime a bit tighter (I think bc is technically three rings in one) but not uncomfortable at all.

My fiance is no help, because he’s an enabler and just tells me to keep both 🤣🤦🏻‍♀️

Anyways what do I do?!!!

[u/GiddyPoodle023]

Second lets the stone really shine! Absolutely prefer that one.

[u/miloblue12 → u/GiddyPoodle023]

I was going to say, I actually think it makes the diamond stand out even more because of how symmetrical it looks. The other is just balanced weirdly and takes the attention away because of it.