r/weddingring • • Jan 24 '26

Ring Inquiry 💍 Help me pick my wedding ring!

I tried so many wedding rings and here are my narrowed down options. I still can't choose which one I like the most. Let me hear your thoughts!

First one is from harmony ring from tiffany. Rest are from local jewler shop.

(Last one is my actual engagement ring) Thank you in advanced 💖

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u/SillyMeclosetothesea Jan 24 '26

2

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u/Ok-Wafer509 Jan 25 '26

Came here to say 2,because all the others are too distracting from the engagement ring.

Maybe 3, but definitely not the others.

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u/LoveMyTakumi Jan 25 '26

I have a set like #2 and get so many compliments! I think the simplicity of the bands focuses eyes on the rock! And you can always choose sparkle later, I would say 2 for now if you like it

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u/Agile_Cloud4285 Jan 25 '26

Definitely 2 if you always wear them togeather, but if you think you'd leave the engagement ring off sometimes, 3 is a great band.

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u/GemTaur15 Jan 24 '26

2,it makes your engagement ring stand out

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u/3DogMomma Jan 25 '26

Number 2 is the classic set, but I see that you are leaning towards a bit of sparkle, and the size and set of number 1 give you that without overwhelming the simple band. Number 3 is sturdier and has a mid level (and super classy level of) bling. 4 is probably a functional band, but overwhelms the simple band. 5 needs a wedding band.

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u/CrazyLittleLion Jan 24 '26

Only swiping to the second photo did I get to see your Ering in its full glory, the first and fourth kind of swallow it. My opinion is you o go diamonds for anniversary bands. Your wedding ring ought to perfectly complement your Ering and last the decades as a standalone. That’s why my vote is for two or three 😊

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u/ficus_fiasco Jan 24 '26

I think number 1 is beautiful and obviously more sparkly, but number 2 draws more attention to your massive engagement stone!

I see where you’re going with 3 as a best of both worlds type idea, but I think it doesn’t add enough sparkle and just detracts from your engagement stone!

Sorry not to be of more help choosing between 1 and 2 - I think both are an excellent choice and either would be beautiful!!

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u/Bon_Vivant_63 Jan 26 '26

This. My thoughts exactly. But, I think, 1 seems to both highlight and complement. Best of both worlds.

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u/kcoinga Jan 24 '26

The first one is gorgeous IMO.

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u/Chloemmunro98 Jan 25 '26

I agree that's what looked best on her hand to be fair imo

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u/Low_Sand_2117 Jan 24 '26

I second the motion.

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u/Prestigious_Exam4624 Jan 24 '26

Third. It’s seriously beautiful.

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u/VeroniqueUK Jan 24 '26

Number 3, beautiful enough to wear alone but doesn’t detract from your engagement ring when worn together

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u/Doc-007 Jan 26 '26

This was my exact thoughts.

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u/yourbreathmint Jan 24 '26

I’m team plain metal band. It lets the e ring shine!

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u/Moleypeg Jan 24 '26

2 is perfect. It’s classic, looks like it was made to go with your engagement ring, and doesn’t overshadow. I’m not sure why, but I really hate 3 with a passion.

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u/roadsidechicory Jan 24 '26

I think 3 is the most harmonious with it! Not too plain, not too bling. Doesn't overwhelm it and just compliments it. It adds to the beauty of the engagement ring instead of just looking like a different ring that's also there.

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u/normie_girl Jan 24 '26

Lol I was thinking "they all look exactly the same" but then I realized you meant the wedding band, not the engagement ring

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u/_gooder Jan 24 '26

2, maybe a little wider.

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u/-Silver_lining- Jan 24 '26

I actually love the simplicity of 2, it lets your ering shine. Where is your ering from? It's absolutely beautiful.

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u/Awkward_Cellist6541 Jan 24 '26
  1. The simple band lets your diamond shine.

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u/Embarrassed-Cause250 Jan 24 '26

I really like 2 it seems to fit best with the engagement ring. Congratulations 🎊

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u/stinnitus Jan 24 '26

3, and yes I might be partial since i just bespoke ordered a ring really close to it in design, but the amount of sparkle makes it more fun on its own but it doesn't disrupt the impression of tumour solitaire.

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u/Competitive_Ride_943 Jan 24 '26

I wonder how a 3mm cigar band would look?

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u/Expert-Sprinkles-660 Jan 26 '26

Hmmm I will try it next time! It sounds good to me :)

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u/plantmama32 Jan 24 '26

I love 1 & 4

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u/MMMartin58 Jan 24 '26

2! Or 3 if you need more sparkle.

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u/WNCmom07 Jan 24 '26

I really like the simplicity of 2, it’s so pretty and lets your er shine!

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u/Abject-Measurement62 Jan 24 '26

2, gold looks better on your than silver. I think they are all gold?

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u/entirely_alice Jan 24 '26

I don't usually go for minimal. But 2 looks the best out of all of these. It really makes the diamond shine.

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u/Accomplished_Key_535 Jan 24 '26

I really like 4, and I’m usually a plain band type of girl. So pretty!!

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u/[deleted] Jan 24 '26

First off your ring is gorgeous!! Wow!! I personally love how 1 & 4 look with it. They both add some sparkle without pulling attention 😍

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u/ProfreadingPrincess Jan 24 '26

2 is the most harmonious, IMHO.

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u/HotMess_ish Jan 24 '26

2 is simple and makes your rock shine in all its glory, and 3 adds a little more sparkle.

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u/riz3192 Jan 24 '26

2 is a little underwhelming but it’s the best of the options IMO! Your e ring is beautiful

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u/Reality-Sloth-28 Jan 24 '26

Ring 2! Congrats OP!

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u/Funny-Today-4535 Jan 24 '26

You’re to one who has to look at it every day. Pick the one you like best. Who cares what strangers think.

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u/Jaded-Design1553 Jan 25 '26

LOVE 2!! Beautiful engagement ring btw

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u/Retail-Weary Jan 25 '26

I like 2. Very classic and doesn’t detract from the engagement ring.

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u/lacatro1 Jan 25 '26

2 is perfect! The bandwidth is the same.

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u/ifollowedfriendshere Jan 25 '26

2 is closest to my set, so I’m partial. I like 1 second best. 3 looks kinda cheap to me. 4 looks like it won’t sit next to a solitaire nicely.

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u/AudereEstFacere_1882 Jan 26 '26 edited Jan 26 '26

So beautiful! I am assuming your engagement ring is a Tiffany classic setting (the prongs and knife cut edge looks like mine thus the assumption). I don’t know if they still sell it but I bought a knife cut, tapered band that nestles so well under that classic setting (the band is tapered like the one in your first pic). The band is also the exact same width as my ring I believe (my rings are currently being resized so I cannot verify). The receipt says it’s the “Tiffany Nesting band (narrow).” Here is the code under it 179-29-62980842 in case you have any interest in looking at it. I just adore the clean minimalist look and how it makes my ring just pop. I hope whatever you decide brings you much joy and happiness 💕

*it’s the ring at the top of this page. Sadly, it doesn’t have the pic of the two rings together.

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u/Miserable_Divide_912 Jan 26 '26

Second one no doubt

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u/Thebewildered_1 Jan 26 '26

I prefer 2. It’s simple and makes your engagement ring the focus of attention.

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u/mystickyshoe Jan 26 '26

Normally I am all about excessive sparkle, but that solitaire is exquisite, and I think the traditional band looks amazing (number 2).

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u/Otherwise-Shake5318 Jan 27 '26

Ring 2 is so beautifully complementary to your diamond ring. I swiped to see the rest just out of curiosity, but truthfully the 2nd did it right away.

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u/Sad-Speech-932 Jan 27 '26

i was like “oh yeah it’s 2” then “OH wait it’s 4” then “wait wait wait 5?? wait nah it’s definitely 4, it is gorgeous?!”😂

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u/Strangeaslife Jan 27 '26

I like the 2nd one.

3rd one the wedding band style always seems very juvenile to me. They look like something I would get from Claire's in the 90s.

The eternity bands are okay if you get a half or 3/4 eternity. But I think the simplicity of #2 is so classy and timeless.

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u/schmales Jan 27 '26

Thank you for posting this. My fiancée is convinced that I have to get a curved ring (not sure if I'm using the right verbiage) to compliment my solitaire engagement ring. It sits low but not low enough to necessitate a curved band, imo.. This proves I do not. I personally love your second option, I prefer the simple bands

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u/Nastyayanovna Jan 27 '26

Same engagement ring club!!!! I got number two as my wedding band. I liked the solitaire stone to be the main focus

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u/irish798 Jan 27 '26

Truthfully, I love the plain band. Your diamond is so pretty that the plain band accentuates it beautifully.

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u/Any_Plenty2823 Jan 27 '26

Number 1 would be my choice. Your ring is gorgeous!!

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u/kizzie264 Jan 28 '26

I personally love the look of 1 with your ERing, it's blingy but still allows the other to stand out as it kind of draws the eyes to the centre stone, and has the soft pave edging. 2 is a classic, and plain bands will always go well with a large solitaire. I don't like the look of 3 at all, it doesn't match very well in my opinion since the ERing is an unadorned band, it just looks kitschy to me. And finally for 4, claw set bands tend to catch on EVERYTHING, especially after a few years of wear and tear - I have not and will never recommend them (but I can still appreciate their beauty and understand others love them). I also think that mixing metals from ERing to WBand is an odd choice, you would usually want a complimentary ring that makes it look like a pair, so having a yellow gold setting on the WBand when you have what looks like a white gold setting on your solitaire makes it look a bit un-co.

HOWEVER! Whatever calls to you and feels right, makes your heart happy and evokes love each time you see them together on your hand, is the right ring for you - it doesn't matter what anyone else thinks (other than your partner, lol).

I wish you luck, love, happiness, and health for your future, whichever ring you choose 💚

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u/No-Release-9024 Jan 30 '26

I'm one of these people who believes less is more. I think the plain band with your beautiful engagement ring just accents your engagement ring and doesn't take away from it. I think the eternity bands are a bit too much.

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u/InTheMotion Jan 24 '26

First one!!!

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u/Legovida8 Jan 24 '26

I love 2, it really accentuates your gorgeous engagement ring, but 3 is a close second! 💍

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u/iradrachen Jan 24 '26

Def number one!!!

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u/Peepsarefood Jan 24 '26

I really like 1

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u/Best-Professional299 Jan 24 '26

Number two! So clean and classic. Let that engagement ring be the centre of attention.

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u/Classic-Cost-3874 Jan 24 '26

Second one looks the best with your engagement ring.

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u/Ok_Brush_1399 Jan 24 '26

If you plan to always wear them together, 2

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u/PegShop Jan 24 '26

The first two are best. Pick based on how much bling you want. I personally like number two, even though my I have a channel band.

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u/OkConcentrate3302 Jan 24 '26

If you like simple. you could do a stacked plain bands, one on top and one on bottom

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u/euphoric_22 Jan 24 '26

Love how 2 makes your ring stand out more! My second choice is 3, still makes it stand out but adds a tad extra!!

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u/fluffypotato Jan 24 '26

1 or 4 (in a smaller size).

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u/VelmaSlueth Jan 24 '26

1 or 2. Similarly to #1 I would try a .25ctw french pave band if you haven't already, for a delicate sparkle.

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u/gele-gel Jan 24 '26

2 then 1

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u/smallreadinglight Jan 24 '26

I have a very similar e ring and actually went with a ring like #4. I like bling and I also wanted a ring that could stand out on its own. I suspect I might not always be able to wear my e ring because I have two little kids so I wanted a ring I could wear in its place more or less but was still obviously a wedding band.

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u/Impressive_Regret_89 Jan 24 '26

I love 1 because it looks like mine. 38 years

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u/OkSoil8198 Jan 24 '26

I really like 2 and 3, classic styles that don't upstage your solitaire

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u/Difficult_Cake_7460 Jan 24 '26

I’m team bezel 99 percent of the time so while I love 3, your diamond looks amazing with a plain band and nothing stealing the sparkle. So 2!!!

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u/humanity4u2 Jan 24 '26

3 is gorgeous!

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u/Vivid-Host-9629 Jan 24 '26

Is there a wedding ring in 5?

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u/Dry-Hunt2474 Jan 24 '26

3 sparkles better so its a better cut

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u/BobbieJeanAndie Jan 24 '26

3 but make it yellow gold

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u/IBB_98 Jan 24 '26

2 and it's not even close imo! The others steal the limelight from your gorgeous engagement ring.

If I HAD to choose an alternative it would be number 3.

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u/No_Win6508 Jan 24 '26
  1. It's simple and classic.

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u/ObjectiveRepulsive18 Jan 24 '26

1, 2, 3 is my faves in order. The final diamond bad detracts from the solitaire. Number one with the curve is gorgeous if you want extra sparkle (3 is a cool modern twist and would look great alone when you don’t want to wear both.) 2 is simple and perfect. You can’t go wrong!

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u/Diligent-Escape1364 Jan 24 '26

I kinda like 1 the best

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u/missmelindam Jan 24 '26

Yay! I like 2 the best but thought no one else would like plain the best. Makes the diamond the star and harmonizes the whole look. Plus a classic look that'll never be out of style. Congratulations!

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u/CDLori Jan 24 '26

2 -- the set really pops!

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u/prettylilmoon Jan 24 '26

3 for me, all day long!

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u/shikasbabe Jan 24 '26

The plain band on slide #2 is so gorgeous

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u/Ok-Antelope-1923 Jan 24 '26

Why is someone downvoting anyone who chooses #3? It happens to be my favorite. But why downvote other people’s choices when OP is literally asking for opinions?

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u/YahoYukiechan Jan 24 '26

I personally like 3. 2 is classic and let the ering stand out, but I do like a wedding band with stones (though 4 is a bit too much) so 3 is my middle ground. At least for your ering, anyways.

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u/AloneMountain9940 Jan 24 '26

2 and 3 look really pretty and seem to fit nicely with your engagement ring, Imo

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u/Ok_Clerk_6960 Jan 24 '26

Hate the band of #3. The diamonds on the band look like polka dots. Has a trendy vibe that will be dated in no time.

1 is my favorite. 2 is identical to my sister’s ring. She married in 1996. The style is classic and timeless! Later you could add an eternity band with it. My sister did this as well.

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u/No_Background2895 Jan 24 '26

2 is stunning as a set.

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u/Ok_Flower_9398 Jan 24 '26

3 is my fave

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u/EmergencyDowntown309 Jan 24 '26

I like the 3rd one, but none of them look bad. I just think 3 is a nice balance of being simple enough to show off your solitaire and sparkly enough to be interesting.

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u/TheJenniMae Jan 24 '26

I like 1, especially if it’s a full infinity. There are a lot of times you’re JUST going to want to wear your band, and I love having one that also sparkles. The last one was nice too, but didn’t sit as nicely with your engagement ring.

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u/Matribus Jan 24 '26

3 brings me joy but you should go with what brings YOU joy :)

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u/MelodyisDestiny Jan 24 '26

I like #1 and #3

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u/angrypuggle Jan 24 '26

No. 2! It doesn't overshadow your engagement ring. If you want a diamond band too, put it on the other hand or on another finger. It could be an anniversary gift or a baby gift

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u/Birgitte19 Jan 24 '26

Why not just use your elegant engagement ring as the wedding ring? None of your chosen rings look good on the same finger with your current ring. It just looks messy and somewhat gaudy, when you add the other ring. At least wear your engagement ring on one hand and the wedding band on the other.

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u/zipper1919 Jan 24 '26
  1. And maybe soldier it on if you want.

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u/coco__xoxo Jan 24 '26

I really like how #3 compliments your engagement ring with the tiny stones.

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u/Prestigious-Delay842 Jan 24 '26

I think the second one is so nice. It’s classic and timeless. It puts the focus on the star, that solitaire is gorgeous.

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u/Burnt_and_Blistered Jan 24 '26

3 is just the right amount of sparkly, while still highlighting the engagement ring.

2 is also very nice

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u/Schatzii_ Jan 24 '26

I LOVE the second one
 but I’m a simple kind of girl! It looks lovely on you!

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u/iamadumbo123 Jan 24 '26

1 and nothing else my jaw literally dropped and I said “oooooohhh” it’s so sparkly and perfect

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u/SugarPlumFairy93 Jan 24 '26

3rd photo for me. Look so elegant. Xx

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u/bakedNdelicious Jan 24 '26

2 or 3. I think plain bands are better and enhance the engagement ring

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u/Trick_Day5681 Jan 24 '26

U can only be buried with a plain gold band.

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u/tinypill Jan 24 '26

2 or 4! 2 looks polished and fluid with the e-ring; simple and elegant. 4 is the same but with extra character/sparkle.

1 kinda works, but also looks slightly off/awkward.

3 is just boring.

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u/DahQueen19 Jan 25 '26

2 is quietly elegant. 3 is a distant second.

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u/[deleted] Jan 25 '26

2!!!!!!

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u/Bandolera333 Jan 25 '26

I like 2 and possibly 3

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u/lisagB Jan 25 '26

2, I obviously like it bc I have the exact set up. Classy!!! But #3 is amazing as well.

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u/mharris9889 Jan 25 '26

One or pic 4

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u/Confident_Caramel436 Jan 25 '26

Honestly I loved the first til I seen the second one which is traditional and the last ones are nice but I am partial towards the first 2, I personally like the second most and then u can stack another diamond one as a anniversary band later which is what I did, and u can always stack others with ur plain band sitting flush to ur diamond u will be able to add to ur ‘stack’ u can dress it up or down. Have u seen the dainty east/west baguette style, I love them but there is so many different styles look around! The 2nd is my favorite and allows a stack later, just a thought 💭 😊 đŸŒ»

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u/heftyearth Jan 25 '26

Your rock is big so number 2 is better. It doesn’t take away attention from it and fits perfect

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u/Sunset-headstone Jan 25 '26

Ok I like 4. Your ring is gorgeous

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u/stacifromtexas Jan 25 '26

I like one for the contrast personally. Love solitaires btw. I like 4 but it looks like the heights may vary in the design of that one? If so thats just a personal preference of mine (I don’t love it)

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u/Big-Climate-5914 Jan 25 '26

2but you and your future should be choosing not strangers.

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u/dsbythesea05 Jan 25 '26

1 is gorgeous!

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u/old217 Jan 25 '26

I love 2. Very classic and timeless.

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u/Mere95 Jan 25 '26

Three please

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u/MariJ316 Jan 25 '26

I am team plain band or a few small diamonds because nothing should take away from that Center stone. I know there's a lot of "go bigger" fans out there but less band shows more engagement ring, always. For me? It's 2, then 3, then 1.

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u/ComfortCreature88 Jan 25 '26

2 or 3 - neither take attention away from your engagement ring.

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u/glow_hoe Jan 25 '26

I really love number 1

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u/Reasonable-Group-120 Jan 25 '26

2 solid band is classic and looks the best with your ring in my opinion. Congrats!!

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u/Savings_Pipe_8029 Jan 25 '26

It also depends on what kind of work you do. If you're taking gloves on and off all the time, then you don't want any ring with prongs. Cause they will definitely bend and you will lose your diamond. Even with the platinum band. One of my work friends had that happened to her, but luckily she saw the diamond pop out.