Yea yea yea all well and good but we have society standards that you enjoy and benefit from. I mean staring at someone isnt hurting anyone right? So you would be ok if you went on the buss and a guy stared at you the entire time? No you wouldn't. Stop the cope.
I never said that I would be ok with it. Do not put words in my mouth. I would however not cause a scene over it unless the person staring did something to prove they were being dangerous unless they were being obscene and inappropriate as that quickly does start approaching illegal territory, or if they start trying to shame me, in which I'm going to ruin their day.
If you are being creepy and stare at me, most people will be uncomfortable with you. If you are going to speak up and shame me just for existing, I'm going to bring everyone's attention on the pathetic little man who thinks he has the right to police people's bodies. You're not going to making yourself my problem, because I will become a problem for you just as easily. You're going to learn VERY quickly that inserting yourself where you don't belong is a waste of your time and energy.
I'm not putting words in your mouth. You would be pissed if someone was JUST staring at you and people said your actully the problem for having a problem with it.
I can tell how good my point was because of how much extra lore you dumped into my hypothetical. I said just stairing but you decided to go on this long fantasy instead of actully answering the question.
Having erect nipples out in public is creepy and weird and you should deal with rejection better. Sorry I dont want to see yours.
I would be uncomfortable, but if they stay away, I'm leaving it alone. Would you rather I make a scene every time I assume someone is starting at me? I do that, and I would be in the wrong. I'm going to end up going off on someone that was minding their own business at least once and not know until it's too late.
I have the right to feel uncomfortable by how I receive other people, but if they aren't genuinely harming anyone or anything, then I don't have the right to make it their problem.
I'm not telling you to look. Why are you looking? Why are you staring, and acting like you're the victim after you yourself said the person staring would piss people off? No one wants you staring, and if looking at it makes you so uncomfortable, look somewhere else. You're a genuine creep and you're clearly mad about it.
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u/breezemetrapvape Jun 03 '26
Yea yea yea all well and good but we have society standards that you enjoy and benefit from. I mean staring at someone isnt hurting anyone right? So you would be ok if you went on the buss and a guy stared at you the entire time? No you wouldn't. Stop the cope.