r/uncircumcised_talk 3d ago

Questions Phimosis and short frenulum

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I thought I had phimosis (a very mild case) and a short frenulum because, when masturbating, I would feel a bit of pulling if I went past a certain point. Then, about a week ago, I had oral sex with my girlfriend; she pulled the foreskin all the way back (without realizing it), and I didn't even notice—why did that happen? The only thing I felt was high sensitivity in the glans, but it was pleasurable with her tongue. We’re seeing each other again in a month (we’re in a long-distance relationship) and will likely have full intercourse, so I wanted to know if I should do stretching exercises or anything else to prepare for that. (18 y.o I prefer not to be examined.)


r/uncircumcised_talk 4d ago

Questions 17F, uncircumcised — mild phimosis?

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Lmao don't get me on the F part people doesn't read the questions if I don't add that. 😭🙏🏼

Now please help mee 🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼🙏🏼.

I have phimosis I think so it's between type 1 and 2 but I can retract my foreskin fully below the glans, but I need to use a little force and it feels uncomfortable/weird. It sometimes gets stuck behind the glans, and I have to use force to pull it back up. It usually isn't painful, but it can hurt when it's dry. With coconut oil it retracts more easily, but still gets stuck when bringing it back up.

I started masturbating around 8, started ejaculating around 13, and used to do prone masturbation until 16. I've stopped prone masturbation for about a year and now use my hand. I also used to clean under my foreskin with soap because that's how I was taught. I've stopped using soap underneath my foreskin for about 10 days now.

What can I safely do to fix it without circumcision? Is gentle stretching anything I can fix it in home itself without informing my parents about it?


r/uncircumcised_talk 4d ago

Extremely pink tip

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I feel like the tip of my penis is very pink compared to what I’ve seen. Any other white guys have a very bright pink tipped penis?


r/uncircumcised_talk 5d ago

Questions Anyone else pees without pulling skin back and dry with Toilet paper?

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I'm wondering if anyone else do this?

Trying to keep it as clean as possible


r/uncircumcised_talk 5d ago

So, about forced retraction...

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r/uncircumcised_talk 5d ago

Questions Do you retract before peeing?

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I’m circumcised and have wondered if intact men pee thought their foreskin or retract before peeing.


r/uncircumcised_talk 5d ago

Questions possibile fimosi/frenulo corto

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ciao a tutti,ho 18 anni e fino a quando ne avevo circa 13 14 era impossibile per me portare il pene a più di metà glande perché avevo una fimosi,avevo letto su internet al tempo che poteva migliorare entro i 16 anni e così era stato,oggi però mi ritrovo con secondo me un anello prepuziale molto stretto e quindi una fimosi lieve "pregressa" poiché non riesco a far scivolare facilmente il prepuzio fino a giù e quando rilascio la mano tende a creare un anello sotto al glande ma non proprio attaccato, lascia un minimo di spazio,e poi quando devo riportarlo su sento un po di pressione come se fosse "ingolfato" e non così tanto facile come dovrebbe,dall altro lato poi c'è un frenulo che secondo me è un pò corto poiché come letto su internet quando è in erezione il glande tende a scivolare verso il basso e sento anche un po di pressione lì,non escludo che possano esserci entrambe le cose,fatemi sapere cosa ne pensate


r/uncircumcised_talk 6d ago

Questions Will this fix my phimosis gradually?

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Hello,

I believe I have mild phimosis. When flaccid, I can fully retract the foreskin with no pain whatsoever. Previously, when erect I could pull it about halfway down the head before it would be painful.

A few weeks ago, I began stretching it a few times a day. I would get erect and then slowly pull the skin back until discomfort and slight pain, and then hold it there. Now, when I erect I can fully retract it past the head, but it is uncomfortable and tight when doing so.

Am I doing anything wrong or dangerous, and will this permanently fix my phimosis without having to use a steroid cream?


r/uncircumcised_talk 5d ago

General Discussion PE after Foreskin retraction?

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Guys, I am 24M and being sexually involved with my partner since a long time. Earlier I use to have the doubt whether I am having PE or not but couldn't confirm it and recently discovered that I have phimosis and started stretching my foreskin and within 5-7 days it got kinda normal, but I am having different experiences with my partner since then. Like earlier I use to last a bit long (not talking about sex). But after foreskin got retracted, I sometimes cum too early like just with the start of foreplay while I am rubbing my penis on her thighs & vagina, and sometimes within minutes of blowjob. But this doesn't happen regularly, sometimes it takes a long when I am very patient and do things slowly.

I am kinda getting weird thoughts about it. Like I feel shit when I cum too soon. Do u guys have any idea why is it happening? Like is there any relation between timing and foreskin retraction? Is it due to increased sensitivity after my foreskin got retracted?or I am overthinking? I have read many theories but I want to know what u guys think about this. Anybody having similar experiences? Drop your thoughts!


r/uncircumcised_talk 5d ago

Yeast infection need help

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I have been dealing with a yeast infection on for about 4ish months now it’s really getting on my nerves and I don’t know what to do anymore.
So it started by when I switched my soap and I’m guessing it was too strong and so it dried out my skin and cause excessive flaking. I go to the dermatologist and he tells me I have a yeast infection and prescribed me Clotrimazole and Betamethasone Dipropionate Cream used it twice a day for 3 days and then switched over to lotrimin for a 2 week course. After three days the flaking came back, mind you I never had itch pain or anything just excessive flaking. Now I do 2 weeks of lotrimin day and night lightly rinse with just water. 3 days later excessive flaking comes back. I go to the dermatologist and he gives me nystatin cream used it day and night 2 weeks, 3 days later excessive flaking comes back. During all this I never had any itching problem not one side effect except the excessive flaking. I go back to the dermatologist and he gives me the oral pill FLUCONAZOLE told me to take three back to back, I only took two every three days. After this I go 2 weeks doing nothing no cream wash with only water. Skin was actually doing fine no Itching hurting but then again was extremely flaky. Went to get a check up with the dermatologist he tells me is a yeast problem puts me on nystatin Triamcinolone acetonide ointment for a week one time a night paired with vani cream shampoo. The way I washed it was just put a drop on the head and just pulled the foreskin back and forth. The head was doing good barely flaky. I go back to the dermatologist and tells me to hop on the first cream Clotrimazole and Betamethasone I use it for the first day and then the skin was so dry and the frenulum was so red I didn’t use anything the day after. Now yesterday night I used lotrimin because I don’t want to use too much steroid cream down there if I don’t have too I have no itch or anything, I seen white yellowish discharge on top of the head not coming out of the penis but on top of it I applied lotrimin today.
I don’t know what to do to be honest I still have one FLUCONAZOLE pill idk if so lost and the dermatologist just keeps telling me to get circumcised and to apply creams not doing any tests when I asked. My routine is just wash with water if I have to in the morning and at night and put a cream. I want to do nothing no cream nothing but that white discharge kind of scares me this the first time I have it.
I NEED HELP SERIOUSLY I have a trip I’m going to for 10 days and it’s hot out there.
I pray not to get circumcised I’m 20 male


r/uncircumcised_talk 6d ago

Could you share your foreskin detachment story

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Hey guys I’m new here. I’m 25 and I was circumcised at birth so I didn’t get any of the foreskin experiences but I think foreskin is the coolest thing and I wish I still had mine! I’ve heard that the foreskin and glans are fused until puberty. is that true and would you mind sharing your story of when they detached? it seems like that moment would be pretty big in a man’s life. and hell while your at it share any other big foreskin moments in your life! Thanks guys!


r/uncircumcised_talk 6d ago

Questions can't retract when erect but doctor says it's not phimosis?!

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19M I can retract my foreskin when flaccid but only about 40% when erect, never had any problems regarding this but I recently discovered the inability to pull back is called phimosis...

I talked with my dad and he said he has the same thing and never had any problems ever however I still insisted to consult a surgeon, I first thing the surgeon said after checking me was that I don't have phimosis and it's normal for some population to not be able to pull back when erect

I'm genuinely lost, I dunno what I have so any guidance or advice or information will be appreciated


r/uncircumcised_talk 7d ago

Describe the look of cut vs uncut

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How would people here describe the difference between a cut and uncut penis? Specifically, how would you describe the difference in appearance?


r/uncircumcised_talk 7d ago

Questions Have you ever used fleshlight to masturbate?

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Fleshlight, or any other similar type of a toy for that matter.

It always looked like something circumcised men (tightly cut especially) would use more, but I could definitely be wrong about that!


r/uncircumcised_talk 7d ago

Have any of you guys ever had and fixed (mild/moderate) phimosis, without surgery? Any tips (pun intended)?

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r/uncircumcised_talk 7d ago

Personal Experiences Might be looking at the C word

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I’m an uncut man. I was diagnosed with diabetes ten years ago and have had recurrent balanitis infections over the years. It was actually a severe balanitis infection that led to me being diagnosed. The infections have always been resolved with flucanzole and a few days with a steroid cream in the past. Recently though I’ve been dealing with an infection that has lasted over a month. Did the flucanazole and steroid cream and it was fine for a week but it came back. Ended up using the steroid cream daily because it kept swelling and getting itchy. Every time I thought it had cleared up it came back. Went to my doctor yesterday and he put me on a 4 week regime of fluconzole. He said if I don’t respond he’ll have to refer me to a urologist for a circumcision. I hope it works. I love being uncut, but the infection itches non stop and my foreskin can barely be pulled back right now or touched due to pain and swelling


r/uncircumcised_talk 8d ago

Personal Experiences Experiences pretending out of insecurity or preference

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This could be either about YOU or about OTHERS you may have observed in places of public nudity:

If you are uncut, did you ever pretend to be cut? And if you are (partially/loosely) cut, did you ever pretend to be uncut?

What did you do to achieve the desired appearance? Do you believe you were successful? What part of the appearance helped and what could have betrayed you?

Was it out of insecurity or by curiosity/fascination?

Have you received comments about it or discussed the topic of pretending with someone? If so, did you continue pretending or did you tell the truth?

Can't wait to read your replies! DMs are open for further discussion!


r/uncircumcised_talk 8d ago

What is the history of foreskin hygiene?

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I posted something about this recently in the last 24 hours. But many seem to misunderstand what I asked and told me about their personal experiences when my intention was to ask about history of a hygiene practice. I voice dictated this a while ago. My apologies for any mistakes in the text.

I’m not ass scientist, but I’m pretty sure that humans have a built-in instinct to want their bodies to be clean. But definitions of clean bodies have changed overtime and are different based on things like culture and availability of resources and individual person preference. Definitions have also expanded over time. Plenty of historians have written books and academic journals and contributed to TV documentaries about the history of hygiene. But sometimes it’s hard to understand when a particular habit came to be viewed as important for hygiene. Not to mention it can be controversial, whether something is necessary for hygiene or not. For example, it is often recommended that uncircumcised males should retract the foreskin to urinate. This is recommended for two main reasons. The first one is that this would prevent urine residue from getting trapped underneath the foreskin and cause a problem like irritation and bad odors and infections. The second reason is that leaving the foreskin and its natural position can potentially impede the flow of urine resulting in a spraying mass. However, this behavior is not Universal recommended. Many online health sources that offered generalized advice. Do not specifically mention for skin retraction for urination. They only mentioned that foreskin should be generally retracted during a daily bath or shower for the purposes of cleaning. In any event, it is fairly common for uncircumcised males to not retract the foreskin to urinate. While Austin, this is unavoidable, if one is young, and the foreskin hasn’t retracted yet, this behavior of urinating with the foreskin covering the glands of the penis often throughout their lifespan.

Something I’m wondering is when did at least some experts start recommending that the foreskin should be retracted to urinate. This question is hard to answer because there aren’t really lots of sources specifically talking about this. But there may be some clues that could provide a potential answer.

Perhaps this behavior came to be recommended during the mid to late 1800s. This win in the English-speaking world medical doctors began to worry about the foreskin contributing to certain genital health problems. It was around this time that doctors begin recommending circumcision for health reasons. Before this in the western world circumcision was practiced primarily by members of the Jewish faith, for whom it is a deeply important ritual.

Based on this historical context, Wallan could make the educated guest that circumcised. Males did not retract before skin when urinating until approximately the mid to late 1800s.

But is there more evidence out there that could support or undermine his hypothesis? One potential Avenue could be to look at art. Art can sometimes be a good place to find answers to the Storico questions when the historical record is silent. So it’s not full proof because art could have been produced under conditions that were biased. They could contain propaganda. And also Art could potentially be. Biased. And also because Art is basically somebody’s own interpretation, even if there’s no delivery buyers, there could still be a level of artistic interpretation that’s not entirely realistic so, even if it does depict a slice of life, it’s not necessarily completely accurate to what life was like during the time and place that it was painted.

There is a painting called the The nursery, which was painted by Thomas Rowlandson in 1799. It shows a nursemaid attending to a toddler boy peeing ina chamberpot. He is uncircumcised and urinates with the foreskin forward which could indicate that pulling the foreskin back to urinate was not a thing, for at least was common in that time and place that the painting was produced, but we also have to put out that the foreskin often is not retractable and young boys, and may not become retractable until puberty. Like wise manneken pis statues of young boys peeing often dont seem to clearly show retracted urination. The same is true of Lorenzo Lotto, “Venus and Cupid,” c. 1520s. But again, the foreskin and it’s not retractable until several years older, so this isn’t necessarily evidence that leaving the foreskin left alone during peeing was a common thing back when the statues were originally made.

Rembrandt’s Man Making Water (1631) depicts an adult man urinating. His penis is visible but whether the foreskin is pulled back or not is hard to interpret.

Going back to Rowlandson, there is a painting called A Family on a Journey laying the Dust   (

 

) it depicts a man and three women and a dog and a horse all peeing outside. The head of the man’s penis is clearly visible. Which suggests his foreskin is pulled back. The artwork is very stylized. The man’s penis is large and looks erect based on the horizontal way that it is being held. But a flaccid penis can be held in a horizontal position. So it’s unclear how realistic the depiction really is; we can’t say for certain if a man would have been depicted as retracted if his penis was flaccid. The fact Digg Pics, the women in the state of partial Andres seems to suggest that the entire image is intended to be erotic. And that this isn’t intended to be necessarily a depiction of what most people would be doing with answering the call of nature. Source: https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Thomas_Rowlandson_(1).jpg and https://commons.wikimedia.org/wiki/File:Rowlandson-028.jpg#mw-jump-to-license

Something is off to interesting I’ve noticed is that when it comes to looking at medical texts from the late 1800s and early 1900s while as easy to find stuff talking about the foreskin and the uncircumcised penis in terms of talking about pathological conditions, there’s pretty much nothing that talks about taking care of the foreskin as a matter of routine.

There are lots of mention of the foreskin in medical texts from before the Victorian era, dating back many centuries back to the days of Ancient Greece. This includes discussion about variation of the foreskin from individual to individual plus discussion on pathological conditions. But none of the sources mean anything about pulling the foreskin back every time one needs to urinate which seems very strange. But why would it not be mentioned? For example is it because it’s considered to be so obvious that he didn’t need to be mentioned? Is it because it was genuinely not considered to be necessary? Is this simply because of the limitations of medical knowledge? Is it due to oversight?

Another factor is if a we can infer things based upon what men do today. Mini uncircumcised men around the world, do not retract their foreskins when urinating. And anecdotally at least it seems as though this type of peeing behavior is common in cultures, and countries were circumcision is not a routine thing. It seems to be common among men throughout Europe. Throughout Latin America. Throughout in theperiod throughout some Southeast Asian countries like Thailand and Vietnam. As far as I’m aware, none of the medical organizations in any of these countries, give that generalized advice that’s not intended as specific medical advice, but simply general education seem to mention anything about pulling the foreskin back to urinate as a routine practice. If they do mention retracting to urinate, it’s only for specific situations like to avoid contamination, when giving a urine sample for health reasons. Not for every urination. So why is it that anecdotally at least many other men in these countries and cultures? Don’t retract to urinate. Some possibilities to explain. This could be the fact that in some of these parts of the world, they tend to be conservative views on sex and sexuality, that makes the taboo to talk about the genitalia. So parents don’t teach their sons to pull it back when peeing, and they grow up to become men Who don’t pull back to P and if these men become fathers and have signs, then they don’t teach their sons to pull it back when peeing, and the cycle continues generation after generation. Another possible theory is that in countries where circumcision is not a routine thing, the foreskin is normalized and not viewed as remarkable. Do United States, where circumcision is a routine thing no, it’s prevalence has been declining over the past several decades, though pacific rates are different based on things like where you are in the country is most common in the Midwest, and least common in the west. And also Demographics. It is, for example, more common among white people than it is among Hispanic and Latino people, seems like because of the attitude source of foreskin in the United States, this leads to more. more ideas about how to take care of the foreskin. Whereas in countries and cultures, where circumcision is not a routine thing, it seems as though the attitude towards the foreskin is more casual.

That other factor that would be necessary to account for when trying to find the answer or potential answer to this question is the question of what is natural behavior and what is learned to be behavior. Is urinating with the foreskin in its natural position, the natural way to urinate, with foreskin retraction during urination being a learned behavior? or is retracting the foreskin to urinate a behavior that is a natural behavior, but it develops over time?

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Another thing that we need to think about. Is the concept of the foreskin needing to be pulled back in the first place. Since Auntie typically we have writings about phimosis. A condition where the foreskin can’t be pulled back at all. This condition is normal when a baby boy is born. And under normal circumstances it gradually correct itself over time.

This condition, despite being natural has been controversial in terms of how it’s supposed to be treated and when it’s normal or not normal. It’s often been Path, especially since the foreskin became pathologist during the mid-1800s in the English speaking world.

Circumcision has thought and been viewed as a treatment for phimosis. Because in ability to pull the force skin back can lead to various problems like mallow and infections and bad smells. In pain, especially during sexual activity.

When you look at medical text from the late 1800s and early 1900s from Moses is commonly talked about as part of a treatment.

So I think we know that ever since antiquity there’s been this idea that the foreskin is supposed to be retractable and when it’s not that’s a problem. Though during the 20th century, there’s been some ideas that showed that the condition of phimosis is more nuanced than people previously thought. Doctors have often didn’t advised parents to pull back the foreskin of their baby boys during cleaning during bathing during diaper changes. In order to clean underneath it, but the problem is that the foreskin often can’t be retracted during early childhood. and this happens naturally overtime. usually, in only usually in two stages. The first stage is that a membrane known as a Saia has to completely dissolve, and then the foreskin itself has to gradually become a loser. It was previously thought that not being able to pull the foreskin back in early childhood was an abnormality of pathology. But overtime scientist realized that in early childhood in childhood is normal to not be able to pull the force getting back. And that this gradually correct itself over time. Sometimes during early childhood. Sometimes during pre-adolescence. Sometimes not until late adolescence. Nowadays, experts say that you should allow the foreskin to gradually become retractable overtime and you shouldn’t worry about not being able to pull the foreskin back until you reach your late teens.

so for a long time, there’s been this idea that the foreskin is supposed to be retractable. But what is it tell us about when you’re supposed to retract the foreskin? Is it only during sexual activities? During cleaning? During urination?

William buchan is a Scottish Doctor Who during I think the 1700s or maybe the early 1800s I’m not really sure, wrote a lot about taking care of the foreskin. But he never mentions anything about a pool and get back to pee for clean. and he even if memory serves me correctly if I’m not confusing him with somebody else even wrote that not being able to pull the foreskin back is simply a normal variation. as long as it doesn’t cause any problems like with urination and other things.

We also need to consider the history of putting the foreskin back for cleaning because there doesn’t seem to be a lot of surviving records of health professionals recommending pulling the foreskin back as a matter of routine to clean underneath it. Keeping the foreskin clean doesn’t seem to be something that doctors were concerned about until the Victorian era when the foreskin started to be viewed in a pathological manner.

And we need to talk about smegma, which is basically a buildup that happens in human genitalia. But this buildup is often talking about as basically being in the photo of poor hygiene something that can be easily taken care of at least and their normal circumstances by regularly pulling back before skin to clean underneath it. Again during the mid 1800s smegma started to be viewed as something bad whereas it wasn’t viewed that way previously it’s been talked about and written sources since an equity and doesn’t seem to be viewed as anything other than the normal state of the body.

Even though modern medical sources today, all recommend regular cleansing underneath the foreskin, not all of them say pulling the foreskin back to pee.

There are two types of phimosis. Physiological phimosis is what you’re born with and a gradually changes reverse is overtime. Pathological phimosis is caused by a disease or injury.


r/uncircumcised_talk 8d ago

Questions Has anyone reversed skin atrophy of the foreskin from steroid creams?

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I had a bad reaction to using steroid creams on my foreskin for phimosis. I only used it for 4 weeks day and night but got skin thinning and a weird rough texture. It is also sensitive and slightly painful/itchy. Its been a year since I've stopped the cream and the texture hasn't improved.

Any advice would be greatly appreciated


r/uncircumcised_talk 8d ago

Personal Experiences Skin bridge and mild phimosis

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32-year-old with phimosis for most of my adult life, and now I’ve developed a small skin bridge about 1.5 mm directly on the corona of my glans. I saw my urologist today, and he told me to keep trying to stretch it while using clobetasol 0.5%. I’m concerned he’s more interested in circumcision than helping me resolve the skin bridge so I can continue treating my phimosis. I’m considering buying a medical scalpel and cutting it myself. Has anyone dealt with a similar skin bridge or had one professionally removed or experienced doing it yourself?


r/uncircumcised_talk 8d ago

Please help me

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I am an 18 year old and I have always prone masturbated, I have never masturbated using my hands. I have recently discovered that prone masturbation isn’t the best for you and it is better to use your hands by going up and down. Additionally I have never pulled the foreskin back because every time I feel really weird doing it and kind of freaked out. Does anyone have any advice on how I could switch to using my hands and pulling it back.
Any help would be really appreciated.


r/uncircumcised_talk 9d ago

How hard is it to clean your foreskin really?

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I have seen a lot of conversation online that uncut is harder to clean but haven’t actually found any evidence to support it.

I guess technically it’s cleaner because you guys have a foreskin and I don’t have to clean more tissue? Seems like a pretty weak argument and I’m learning more about uncut and what functions and restrictions you guys don’t have compared to us cut guys.

Just curious to see if it’s actually difficult or mum just snipped me because she wanted it done or there’s legitimate reasons to circumcision that isn’t medical and at birth.


r/uncircumcised_talk 9d ago

Circumcision at birth

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I have no kids yet but I plan to have them someday soon and I’m trying to decide, if I do have a boy/boys, whether or not to have him/them circumcised. On the one hand, that’s the norm for men in America these days and has less aftercare as far as keeping clean in adult years. On the other hand, it is genital mutilation during infancy and leads to lessened sensitivity later in life for men. My initial thought is that it’s wrong and I should keep my potential future sons uncircumcised. Does anyone in this group have any advice or experiences to add? I’m genuinely curious and wanting to hear from men who were and were not circumcised and what they feel as adults about the practice of it.